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*ictoria_sweethear
writes:Hi.i am new at sex and i was wondering if it is normal to get wet just thinking about it. like out of nowhere in the middle of class just get wet.also what do i do about it?ignore it or run to the bathroom and finger myself and get it over with? Reply to this Question
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reader, happyholly  +, writes (30 January 2008):
I dont think you need to run to the bathroom may be a good idea in your own room or at least somewhere private. You could also try a pantie liner if you start to get very wet. You are very young but also very able 2 have these feelings. Try if you can to leave the day dreaming untill you get home or you could also think about the homework your teacher will be giving you, thats enough 2 stop any sexual feelings. Stay happy and safe, Hollyx
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (30 January 2008):
 How strange! at your age, all I could think about was what horse I would get to ride at the weekend.
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reader, scythe  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 yep its normal. have you worn pantyliners before? you can get really really small/thin ones that you can hardly notice, they're great!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (30 January 2008):
What you are experiencing is very normal.The price you pay for growing up! Personally,i've never supported musturbation because it has a hidden effect on your future sex life but if it makes you feel better,go ahead.Just be strong and bear it,i know and promise you it will go away after a short while.The more you able to withstand it,the more you'll be able to withstand it when a guy tries to seduce you.
Take care.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Yes, it is perfectly normal for young people in or just beyond puberty to experience sexual arousal - getting "wet" for young girls, getting hard for fellows. Even just thinking about it.
If the "getting wet" is becoming frequent and possibly embarrassing, you might consider wearing feminine pads more regularly to avoid the possibility of "showing."
In your age bracket and for quite a few years to go, the wisest remedy, if needed, is to stimulate yourself as you suggested and avoid the temptations you will almost certainly experience to have rather than too much direct physical interaction with boys.
This may be very difficult at times, because what is undoubtedly happening is a tremendous surge of hormonal activity in your body. Sexual hormones will drive you toward doing things that are perfectly natural responses, but the potential results could prove devastating to your future.
Masturbation is, above all, the smartest way to deal with the urges that you will be experiencing over the next several years, and masturbation is a totally healthy and much safer way for you to cope with the urges.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2008): It's absolutely positively normal. Don't panic. Masturbation at schools seems to be going a little too far. Instead of interrupting class time by running out every time you get horny, put it out of your mind and doodle a picture of a flower or a rabbit on the margin of your notebook or something.
Sex is...well, sexy, and it's normal to be turned on by the thought of it. Don't worry, hun. You're normal!
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