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*yperbunny
writes:I met a guy just before Christmas.. we were seeing each other quite intensely for a few weeks, but then I went to Thailand for a month.I cam back from Thailand, we saw each other once and then after that I didnt hear from him again, which was quite upsetting for me..anway 3 weeks down the line.. he starts callin me.. he calls about 10 time sint he space of 2 days and I dont pick up because I was angry that he'd ignored me for so long... anyway last thursday he starts callin again.. I dont pick up despite actually wanting to see him..then saturday morning he calls me again and I pick up.. we chat and he tells me he has had alot of issues and as i was near wheere he lived at the time (shopping) if i would come and see him...I said yes, but then ralised that I did have alot of things to do.. anyway he kep kept kept callin me to go to his.. eventually i said look no ill see you tomorrow.then he was just like 'oh ok fine forget it, dont worry about it' i said fine ok and hung up... then he calls back asking me why im being like that and not to call or text him now that id really annoyed him... so i said fine and hung up.. then hekept callin again i didnt pick up...anyway is it a bad idea to actaully see this guy if he is acting like this??whats your opinion on the situation please, i do actually want to see him but was busy at the time!??xxxx
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 I agree with CaringGuy, this man is not worth your time.
He's either got other women going, he's got issues or he just enjoys the attention.
Where was he for 3 weeks? No guy, who is genuine about you, will leave you hanging for three weeks. I went out with someone a long time ago and he never called for a second date. A month later he texts me and asks to 'hang out.' What did I do? Delete his message. Wasn't even worth replying.
If I was you I'd let this one go...starting off like this, with him ignoring you and then being immature and telling you that you'd annoyed him, only means trouble down the road. Don't bother. Leave him to play his little games with someone else. He's not genuine about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): eh..he isn't too interested in you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 March 2010):
To be honest, I wouldn't bother with him. He didn't bother with you for three weeks. Then suddenly he called and wanted you to go to his? Sounds like he just wants sex and nothing else. I wouldn't bother with him.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (17 March 2010):
 He thinks your playing games with him, so is taking it badly. Thing is if he knows your lifestyle a bit then he should understand your busy and not keep calling you anyway.Hes infatuated with you right now but wanting reassurance that your still there for him.
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