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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok just wondered if this is a boy thing? My boyfriend and I are both at uni and when we first started dating together we were both at home for Christmas. Trouble is he lives in Jersey so I didn't see him for 5 weeks. So we spoke on facebook and msn every evening and it was the hightlight of my day :) when we did finally meet again. At the start of this semester we saw each other every other day, still talking everyday or every other day, and all was well. However, I don't think he's going off me or anything, but he suddenly can't be bothered, or something, to come online and talk to me. It's as if he's bored. W can even go a week without seeing each other. It's not like he doesn't care, but almost as if he's too busy, and for some reason it's bothering me. I'm sure it's just a guy thing - things are cooling off but doesn't mean he's not interested. I mean, I'm not expecting us to talk everyday like we did, but it seems like such an effort now, and it's always me who starts it. Also, there's been a family crisis at home, so he's upset and angry, and now it feels lilke he's shutting me out. I'm not the confrontational type, however I feel the need to say something, but what? I've thought of things to ask, like "Will you talk to me everyday? See me all the time?" Because really I'm not sure what I want him to do, and don't really want to upset him and start an argument when he's already tetchy and frustrated. We get along just by me giving in, and saying hi to him, but it feels like he's not making much of an effort for me. And then he will. And its annoying because then I don't know what I made a fuss about. Sorry this is long winded but I need some advice, please....
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