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*oldiegirl
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years. We moved in together 6 months ago. This transition has been somewhat rocky, but overall, we get along well. The problem is, our sex life has gone downhill. I have always been the more sexual of the two of us, and have often been the one to initiate any lovemaking. Fine, I guess. Well, now that we sleep in the same bed every night, but there is zero passion. He NEVER initiates sex. I have tried to wait him out, but after one week I start to go insane. We have talked about this numerous times. He has admitted to "not feeling like doing it" because of stress, etc. I know he is still looking at porn really often. I have never minded porn in the past, but now I am starting to get jealous of this virtual chicks that get him off. I don't know what else to do. My confidence has gone waay down, which is ridiculous, because I am in far better shape than I was when we met. I just don't know what to do. I have read articles telling me to "spice things up", but I just don't know if I can. I feel extremely unattractive, and don't want to be rejected by him. Also, I am sick of being the one who has to do everything. Anyway, aside from sleeping with someone else who actually seems into me, I don't know what else to do. Any advice would be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): wat u got to do is to take charge in bed and try some new things. Find out wat type of fedish he got and try to play around with that when he gets home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): sorry no one answered you love, it's just that sadly we see this question on this board every single day :( There is an epidemic going on out there of men that prefer to play with and by themselves and despite being that selfish, they still expect a girlfriend to stick with them :( I suggest you visit npsupport.net You will find real people in the same situation that can explain how this happens and what is and isn't in your control. Best of luck to you :*
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