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female
age
30-35,
*oveee
writes:Dear Cupid,I went out with this boy but it only lasted for 2 weeks; towards the end of the relationship i started to get strong feelings for him and now they still remain. We have kissed and one drunken night done more stuff, i regret this but im not sure if he likes me or is just playing me. I know he has liked me after we went out a few times but know i like him it seems nothing is happerning. He is desprete for sex and i dont want to be the girl he uses. Is he worth waiting for? And do you think he is just being a typical guy, he makes me smile and i get butterflys around him i cant help these feelings, please help me.FromNot That Kinda Girl.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 Hi there,
congratulations on staying firm with this boy. Now I'm not one to say you should wait until you are married before having sex ,but you should wait until the person you are with is genuine and has proven that they respect you as a person not as someone to have sex with. This boy just wants sex, and is sweet talking you to get it. If he is genuine he will wait until you are ready, if he keeps pressuring you he is not genuine. Don't give in, when I was your age any guy who managed to talk a girl into having sex told the rest of us at the first opportunity and then we all labelled that girl a slut.
good luck
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reader, LoveMyadvice  +, writes (12 February 2008):
Dear Not That Kinda Girl, Don't let this "boy" hurt your feelings, and don't regret anything either. Take your regrets, more as experience of what not to do next time without feeling bad for what already is done. Don't call him and ask him if "anything is wrong" that is the worst you can do. Let him go and he is worth YOUR TIME, then he will call you. If he doesn't, he doesn't deserve your tears. Never think that you should "wait." Wouldn't be a matter if he's worth waiting for; it's more like... You are worth everything AND don't feel like you need to wait for him or anyone...Broken hearts get stronger, the way you feel rightnow are emotions and you are human, boy needs to grow up and he was someone you crushed on for just 2 weeks, so don't waste anymore of your time thinking of him or regreting, use it as a tool for learning by your mistakes and moving on. This is just a process of growing up. You will remember this when you are experiencing your butterflies again and laughing with someone that appreciates you!!!
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