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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:There is this Guy we hung out a few times. The first time we hung out he would say things like he has never dated a girl of my ethnicity but he would if it was me because I'm cute. He was flirting with me the whole night. and the next day at school he talked to me and then he ignored me for like a week. after that week he called me asking me to hang out and he tried cuddling with me but I was with my friend and she wanted tot alk to me so i told him no. He said he could see us being close like best friends and stuff but after that he never talked to me again. I asked him if we were cool he said yea, and I had heard from other friends that he said Im feeling him and all this stuff and he told my cousin that we were friends and he smiled and got shy when he told her that. about a month passed we didnt talk and i hung out with him. He kept touching my butt and i kept pushing him away he sat by me and he said can i be honest ive been feeling you ever since that day we hung out and i told him he never tried talking to me and he said cause he lost my number. Well the next day we all went to the movies all my friends and he was there and he asked me to sit by him but i couldnt. so i went to the bathroom and when i came out he was there waiting and he was commenting on my clothes or whatever and my body ( which he does everytime we hang out). He keeps asking me to sleep wwith him then he says jp cause he knows im not like that and he brings up my past relationships everytime we are alone. The thing is I know hes a player and i kind of do like him. But is it a possibility he only likes me when hes around me? or he just wants sex from me? He holds my hand and like rubs my chin and lays on me all the time and he does things for me even when he doesnt want to but when other people ask him he wont do it...If he does like me why come he doesnt ever try to hang out with me alone?
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reader, babu3u +, writes (9 July 2012):
 He just wants you for sex. You guys are suppose to be friends and he us disrespecting you by touching you when you say no or pushing away. I has the same experience when I was your age and I really liked the guy but he is just playing you. If he was really serious he would ask you to date you, get to know you, and when time passes you both will be ready. But he doesn't want that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2012): I would say he's just after sex with you. Because if I claimed to be into you, I'd ask you for a date before putting my hands on you or EVEN asking you for sex.
Remind him you're not the kind of girl to just jump into bed with the first guy that throws you a few compliments.
I would suggest you say to him that if he's interested you would accept a date with him to see how things go but you WON'T sleep with him if you're not in a relationship with him at the very least.
But, you've said you already know he's a player so is it really worth playing his game and risking being used and getting hurt?
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (9 July 2012):
 If you have only been together a couple of times and he is putting the moves on you without your consent, then he is just using you for sex. Typically you actually date someone and get to know them rather than just "hanging out" before you get physical. Please do not let him sweet talk you into having sex. From what you have said here, he sounds like a real snake, so I would be very careful associating with him in the future.
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