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writes:i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about 5-ish months. his facebook relationship status is 'married to...' (i won't put the actual name) and her wall is public, so i've been on it, and he commented on her profile picture saying 'thass minessssss ;)' on a picture of her showing her boobs. -___- i asked him to take it down 'cause it upset me and it bothered me and he said no, he was gonna keep it up. then he was ragged in a picture (it was a type voting page for who should date who) and it was Samantha and him and he was typing kisses and hearts, he was also tagged in another one him and some other girl, and she was saying he was her baby and he was sending kisses and hearts and he was telling her he loved her. then another one i found, he wasn't tagged on it but i saw it, it was two guys (him and some other guy) and two girls. the pictures were numbered 1-4 and the caption 'who should cuff who?' some girl commented 1 and 4, my boyfriend was 1 and she was 4. he commented 'agreed ^' and then he bagged her s/n for aim.. -__- and also on the girl samantha's wall, she tagged my boyfriend in a post and they were having a convo having to do with having sex. we talked about it and he appoligized and said he was wrong and so on but then today i find this, and it was after we argued about that. he's told me he's in love with me and he loves me me more then i love him and i lost my virginity to him so this isn't easy but should i break up with him? i asked my friends already, and they said he was playing me, my sisters told me the same, my cousins did too, and i'm about to do that but i just need advice from someone else, please helppp! :(
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reader, DearMe  +, writes (24 August 2010):
I wouldnt even stand for him having his status to 'Marrid' to another girl. Look you deserve soooo much more, trust me you can find a decent guy who will treat you so much better and not even think about doing the stuff your boyfriend does. He is just using you, so he can say yeah i have a girl friend. But i can still do what i want! Dont stand for it hun. GET OUT NOW and if you dont, if your hoping he will change he wont! And even if he trys to All the stuff hes ever done to you, will still be in the back of your head. Why is he embarresing you so much. Its terrible to even think a lad is treating you like this. Find someone new. If you dont your being extreemly SILLY! Good Luck and im sorry to say you found such a Awful! boyfriend. xx
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (24 August 2010):
 I think he's playing you, it is ALL out there in the open.I'm just wondering WHY you are still with him/talking to him?
He's a player and proud of it. If you don't want to be "played" with dump the loser.
Doesn't the status :MARRIED = red flag to you?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Oh yeah, he's playing you. According to what you've written, he throws the "love" word around like it means nothing to him whatsoever, and if he were truly in love with you, he wouldn't dream of writing all of that stuff on Facebook. Also, is he really married to this girl or his he your age? That in itself shows that he's no good at all.
Just because you lost your virginity to him doesn't make you bonded emotionally to him for life. Tell yourself you have no future with this guy. You're young, so you have your whole life ahead of you to find a good guy who's not going to use you like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Why are you with him! He's playing around. Dump him with NO explanation - it's what he deserves
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reader, MMAfighter +, writes (24 August 2010):
This is something that is going to be hard for you but yes, you should get rid of him. He is going to do nothing but bring you trouble and pain. You can do much much better than that guy. I know it hurts but hes one of those guys thats only out for one thing, sex. Those are the guys that give men a bad name. If you asked me id say end it as soon as possible and lay back on the physical intercoarse till you really get to know the guy. I hope this helps.
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