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anonymous
writes:What are your opinions on going from one long distance relationship, (lasted around 1 year and half) straight into another one?Of course I know this isn't ideal, but it just seems to be my luck when finding new people!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Heh, I just have to ask - aren't there girls who live locally in your area?? It would save on plane flights and phone bills!
I don't know any of the details in this, but my first thought is that it's not healthy to rush into another relationship immediately after breaking up with one. Rebound relationships can possibly be tenuous at best.
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reader, Lotsalove. +, writes (24 August 2010):
 You've gotta ask yourself, why did the first one end? Was it the distance? Which then comes with being lonely, missing that physical touch and affection and most of all.. trust issues. I have just come out of a long distance relationship between the UK and the USA, which I was in for a year and a half. Im not going to make LDR sound sweet, because they are not. It's one of the hardest things I've ever done. We split up because we couldnt trust each other and the distance started to drive me mad.
Ideally you shouldn't jump from a relationship to another relationship, let alone another long distance one. You need to make sure that the 2nd guy isn't a rebound for you.
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