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writes:A brief outline:I met a guy online last year and we got talking pretty seriously straight away about pretty much our whole lives (we just seemed to click). We moved over to talking on the phone a few months later and talk every night. We're due to meet in a few months.Anyway it's very serious between us and we've admitted we love each other very much and if things work out in person then we've spoken about building a relationship and being together.However these last few weeks I've been having a few reservations about him. There are some things about him that have made me seem him in a different and not altogether positive light. Like for example;1) he won't ever phone me I always have to call him (even when I was having a terrible time lately he didn't call me!).2) he won't ever open up to me unless I ask him a million times what's on his mind. But he still does all he can to avoid talking about himself.3) he doesn't seem to believe anything I say and will act like I don't love him (when I do).4) he sometimes talks like the relationship will be over once he's met me. Its like he's already booked his trip and doesn't want to lose his money so is seeing me for the sake of it and not because he wants to anymore. I mean when I mentioned going to visit him one day he practically stamped his foot and said no way.5) he blows hot and cold incredibly fast.6) But above all, today I found out he's been talking to other women online and when I asked who they were he avoided the question! And wouldn't say what he was talking to them about. Usually I couldn't care less who else he talks to but if it really was that innocent then why the secrecy?Am I reading too much into all this or are these things really warning signals?
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reader, wherestheinstructions? +, writes (22 July 2009):
Avoid this guy big time.
The only thing that's clicked here is your mouse button, and I'd hit delete before you meet him.
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reader, Luaris  +, writes (22 July 2009):
 yea he doesnt sound that great...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Dont meet this guy if you have reservations about him.
What would be the point in starting a realationship that is alreay full of doubts?!
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