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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:The other night I went to a party. One of my good friend's roommates was there. He was actually the one who texted me and told me to come party. Anyway, we both got incredibly drunk and started dancing together. It's all a blur now, but we kissed a couple times And danced some more and he kept saying that I was gorgeous and things like that. We ended up going back to his place, but nothing happened because my friend was awake and knew that I needed to go home and not make stupid decisions (the roommate is known to party and bring home girls but I don't really have feelings for him so his habits don't bother me)..But now I keep thinking about that night and if this kid actually meant what he said when he was calling me beautiful and gorgeous. I'm just wondering because it just feels nice to be called those things. Thanks!
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (20 February 2013):
 Exactly. Men will say anything to get laid while drunk. Dont listen to anything they say good or bad. Understood?
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (19 February 2013):
 He was drunk and he wanted to get into your pants. That's all it meant.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (19 February 2013):
 No. Drunk people on the pull are notoriously effusive and prodigal with compliments, plus "bear goggles " make them more appreciative of any woman, even of very modest attractiveness .( Not to say that you aren't gorgeous and beautiful- I bet you are, but if you want confirmation of this, you'd better ask it from a perfectly sober guy ).
Don't get too hung up on compliments, OP. Sure they do feel nice, no denying it. But when they feel TOO nice, and when it's too important to hear them, girls have a way to end up in the wrong beds with the wrong men.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): Nope, he was only saying those things to get laid and because he was drunk. I can't count the number of women I've called gorgeous while drunk that I don't actually think are pretty at all.
OP it's just a cheap way to get a girl comfortable enough with you in that moment to sleep with you.
OP guys with his reputation will generally shag anyone, and after a few beers he thought you'd be easy so he invited you over to hook up and from what you're saying he was right about that too, seeing as your friend had to step in.
OP you may well be gorgeous, you probably have plenty of guys who admire you, but a drunken man-whore calling you things when so obviously after a casual hook up, really means nothing.
If he really thinks you're gorgeous then why didn't ask you out properly? Why did he only contact you while drunk and why only for a casual hook up?
Never trust a guy in that situation to say what he means, he'll say anything just to seal the deal, that was the only reason he contacted you sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): No. They say when your drunk you speak the truth. That's true but when your drunk everythings a blur. Everyone looks way better when your drunk. So no I don't think he ment it, don't take it personal.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (19 February 2013):
 some people can be genuine when drunk as it gives them more confidence. However, the fact that he often brings girls home I think he was saying it to get you into bed. he might mean it anyway but is using the compliment to get something from you. Tbh, he sounds pretty confident anyway as he invited you to the party, so through his actions you should be able to tell if he likes you or doesn't for certain. if he keeps inviting you to parties, he wants sex. But if he invites you out alone with him, he wants to get to know you. However, be careful because as you regretted him already he might just like the chase!
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