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writes:i was really into this girl and she too had feelings for me. but one day she decided to get back with her ex. i told her that it was a bad idea but her ex is a manipulative guy. she still went back to her ex leaving me heart broken. after that she stopped talking to me properly. then her ex broke up with her and now she is single again. i came to know from her roommate that she misses me a lot and she still has a soft corner for me. she doesnt want to talk to me because she is scared that she will end up hurting me again. she is really stubborn about all this and i know things will be fine if i can talk to her and convince her that its ok to fall in love.the connection and understanding between this girl and me is unbelievable. please help me out so that i can get her to talk to me and find a way to make her understand the situation properly
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): thanx guys... means a lot...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): "i told her that it was a bad idea but her ex is a manipulative guy"
That's bullshit OP, she went back with him because she wanted him and not you. Not because he's manipulative.
"she is scared that she will end up hurting me again"
Because she will end up hurting you again because no matter how she may miss you, she's really not that into you OP.
"i know things will be fine if i can talk to her and convince her that its ok to fall in love"
They won't OP because if you ask me she's trying to protect you, she's not being stubborn she just knows you're not the guy for her.
You can't get her to talk to you to understand the situation OP because you're the one who doesn't understand.
She chose another guy over you, she doesn't love you and doesn't want to be with you otherwise why would she be scared of hurting you? If she was sure she wanted you she'd be sure she'd never hurt you again too.
You need to understand OP you're not the guy for her and she refuses to even talk to you because she knows you'll get hurt. Time to move on.
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