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writes:I've been in love with this boy for maybe a year now but i have only gotten to know him in the last few months. I used to be in love with the idea of him but now that i actually know him, i've fallen ever deeper for him. The thing is, we've become really close friends in like 3 months but i think he sees me as only a friend. We jokily flirt sometimes but i think he just sees it as us being friends. What can i do to make him fall for me too? How do i make him see me as more than a friend?
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (7 August 2016):
 This isn't love, OP; it's a crush. You really like him and he will either feel the same or won't - you can't change that. However, you do need to tell him because you'll get more hurt if you hang on and he's not interested. Being friends will be difficult because you want more.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (7 August 2016):
You are very young. I’m sorry to tell you that it doesn’t work like that: you can’t make people feel something for you. We can’t make ourselves fall in or out of love and we can’t make others fall in or out of love with us. The only thing you can do is either ignore it, or tell him how you feel and what you want. You can tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. Then you have to deal with whatever the answer is.
I wish you all the very best.
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