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writes:ok here goes i have been married a little over 7 months and everything was going great for the first couple of months. but now everything is going wrong. ive caught him talking to 2 other girls and flirting with them. well i had a long talk with him about my feelings and everything seems to be going good. But in the back of my mind i always think he is cheating on me. He never gets on the computer at our house but when he's at work he does. Well there's not alot of stuff he can look at while he's at work cause he's in the military. And them computer is block for some sites. Ive ask him a couple days ago if he was happy with me and only me and he said he was but i dont really believe him. Im scared he's cheating on me behind my back. What can i do to believe him? this is my 2nd marriage and i dont want to be divorced for the 2nd time. But here's the deal i cheated on him 2 weeks after we got together. Could that have something to do with my worries? Im still young and very scared. Can anyone help?
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (25 July 2009):
 So let me get this straight...
you cheated on him TWO WEEKS after you started dating, and now being married you worry if he is cheating?
LMAO!
Is he capable of it...sure! After all you were capable of it...you outta know. Takes one to know one!
Frankly, you are no better than him, if he did cheat.
That being said, you will need proof, so get some proof. Your gut feeling is usually right. So now you kind of feel how it is when the shoe is on the other foot, huh? It's not a real good feeling, is it?
Best of Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): If you are feeling guilty from cheating on him, you're probably assuming that he is also cheating on you, even if he isn't. It's basic psychology. You're projecting your guilt on him. I can't tell you whether or not to tell him, or whether you will ever be able to be able to trust him. You should probably ask yourself why you cheated? It's kind of ridiculous for you to expect him to be faithful if you don't give him the same respect.
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