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writes:Okay... im very concerned for my girlfriends safety..We've been together a while, and have been having phone sex for about the past month. So here's why ive been concerned. 2 nights ago while having phone sex after she was happy with what i did to her she said it was the best i had ever done. She was completely out of breath. After that we stopped but maybe 5 minutes later, she was still out of breath and breathing very heavily. So much she could hardly talk.She said her chest and her heart hurt, and that she couldn't move.. In over a month of doing it this was the first time it happened.The next day i had a tough decision to make. I told her i really didnt want to do anything that night just incase and i couldn't risk anything happening to her.She convinced me to do it again, on account of maybe it was just because it was the most id ever made her orgasm and it took a lot out of her. i figured she might be right and agreed.Well, we did it again, and it happened again. So i told her i cant do it again until i know whats wrong because its really worrying me.And it is really worrying me.So if anyone can tell me what might be wrong id love to know..She doesnt want to know cuz shes had numerous other health problems like non cancerous tumors, low pain tolerance, i think she has a weak heart (which btw really worried me when she said her heart hurt)umm some other stuff that might be helpful...shes 17never had sexnever had been fingered or anything by anyone elseNever orgasmed till a few weeks ago after we startedidk anything else i just really want to know whats wrong with my girl...thank you.nick
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): ay nick, maybe cause she has a weak heart she got so excited an worked up that her heart had to beat and work faster. i think that she should go to the doctor cause this could be a serious problem. best of luck an i hope everything goes well.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (4 February 2010):
 sounds like an asthma attack lol well if you gotta go i guess over phone sex wouldnt be so bad she should get cheked but i doubt it serious if it was that bad she wouldnt keep doing it
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay.. huge thanks goes out to you guys. Being 17, and the first time making a girl orgam, i find myself very inexperianced at anticipating what should happen when she does it, much less at knowing what is considered normal.
PB: I kinda guessed that there was no way to tell without a doctor.. but as she really doesnt want to find out herself, i tried to put her mind to ease by telling her id try to figure it out, and you guys have always given me solid and reliable answers when i needed them. Figured it couldnt hurt to see if it was just our inexperiance.
As much as i'd like to believe so, i dont think its being unused to the orgasm. its been happening for several weeks now almost on a daily basis without this happening in the past. I dont see why it would show up now? idk tho. im no expert
I did think it may have something to do with the sheer amount and frequency lately... in the beginning it was once or twice a night a few times a week... now its five or six or more times a night daily and i figure that has to be taking a huge toll on her body.
I, quite frankly, think its dangerous to her health as well. which is why i want her to get checked out.. She had a rough day today.. and asked if i could help relax her. so i told her id only do it once tonight, and she did tell me when it happened.
She's the most selfless person i know so i always tell her she needs to be more selfish with me.. but i told her tonight i hate it when shes selfish like this when she puts her pleasure in front of her health, my concern and any future we could possibly have.
Anyways, even though i only made her orgasm once, it still happened. Not severe at all. She went short of breath for maybe 2-3 mins. No pain, and could still move. But it didnt happen immediately after she orgasmed or even after i finished the fantasy. It happened a few mins after we both calmed down and were just about to resume normal conversation. I told her to try to control her breathing and take deep breaths and that to my surprise helped her tons. Any ideas?
I've tried to advise her, didnt really want to bring up to much in the way of health or doctors tho. She thinks she found another tumor this time above her eye and i was trying to put her fears to rest. Not throw her into panic.
Im not worried about being embarassed, just worried about her well being. Thanks PB.
Curious: Thanks.. females opinion highly valued since ive never had to experience an orgasm from the other side and dont really know what the normal is.
Again.. i can see that she needs to find out whats going on. Not scared at all.. just scared for her well being. But thats normal, right?
Again thanks
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (4 February 2010):
 She needs to see a doctor. That sort of reaction isn't healthy/normal at all. You should try to see that knowing will be beneficial, even if it is scary.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Unfortunately there is really no real way of knowing what the problem could be without her consulting a trained medical physician.
She may well be unused to the sensation of orgasm, which could be sending her into overload, but the fact that she has other health problems would certainly give you good cause to worry and I think you're doing the right thing in not pushing it too much and restraining yourselves for her sake.
I really think that her not wanting to know is dangerous for her health, she should get checked out and seek professional medical advice for both her and your peace of mind as, if she doesn't, this is going to play on your mind and get in the way of anything in the future as you will not be able to relax while worrying what might happen if you go there again.
Gently advise her that you are worried and would just like her to get the ok from her Dr.
It might seem embarrassing at first, but 2 minutes of embarrassment is better than the alternative.
Good luck xx
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