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writes:Hi there, Well, Let me get started with my story..:I am aged 14, living in England, And there is this girl..Her best friend says that she has liked me since just before Christmas, And I have liked her since about there too. But I have only had one girlfriend in my entire life, And she asked me out... I'm not exactly shy or anything, I wouldn't say, The girl isn't like the total "hotties" you get, Because they aren't exactly hot at all in my eyes, I build relationships on personality instead of looks.. We have known each other for 2 years now and we are pretty good friends, I always make her laugh, We sit near each other in some of our lessons and we always talk after school via SMS... It started a couple of days ago that I started getting a little nervous, I texted her, Just to find out who she liked, And she responded with me, followed by 3 other lads. Then i followed that by Who does she like the most, And she said: "Probably you and name..But name can be a big n**." And then she changed the subject.. Like i said, i am not usually shy, But i can never ask somebody "out"...I cannot face rejection that easily... Does anybody have any suggestions? I never stop thinking of her... I want to be around her, I want to be with her for the rest of my life...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your reply, Abacadaba!
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (2 March 2007):
 ive been in this situation, believe me, beating around the bush isnt good, i would ask her how she feels, not exactly asking her out, but theres only one way you will get her mate, if you put it off, carry on being friends, she will get used to being your friend and not think anything more (not always the case, but its likely) so i would say ask her, at the end of the day, shes not yours (at the moment) so what have you got to lose? friends are friends, ive told friends ive liked them but they havent liked me in that way, never has it changed our friendship, so you will lose nothing. Good luck hope it works out, i know it can be hard to tell someone, but its the only way it can be done
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