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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, Well about 3 days ago i lost my virginity and he was protected , we had sex for about 30 mins , but we had to discontinue because my mom came home . so he came over the next day and we had sex once again but unprotected this time ,yes , i know that was extremely stupid and its something i plan never to do again. I`m worried that i can be pregnant using this pull out method . He did not get a chance to ejaculate once again, we only had sex for 40 mins , and stopped because of the same circumstances . I am every aware that a girl can be pregnant from pre-cum , but he had no ejacution before or after we had sex , and i did some research and most sites said per-cum does not contain sperm in most cases , unless he cumed , or nutted before and did not pee or clean himself b4 going into the girl again and sperm was left on the tip of his penis , but im still worried about pregnancy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Could I stiil get pregant if a guy pulls out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Can I still get pregant from a man pulling out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): can you be pregant and still have your period??
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): Hello babe you need to get yourself checked out better safe than sorry!
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reader, XXpussycatXX  +, writes (31 August 2007):
hey hun...
you will need to go and speak to your doctor because only they can tel you what you need t know...you not stupid everybody does things ike that...the only way you will rest your mind is if you go and see the doc...it will be to early to tell if you do a home pregnancy kit though...
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): you could be pregnant but its unlikely. just take a test you'll never know otherwise
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (31 August 2007):
 If you are really that worried go to your gp/doctor and get tested. They will do it for free. You can also be tested for STIs whilst there as can you be sure the lad is clean. STIs are on the increase and some don't have and symptoms.
Also talk to your doctor about going on the contraceptive pill. If you do happen to go unprotected again least the pill will stop the pregnancy worries.
xxxxx
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reader, skye +, writes (31 August 2007):
 I dont wish to frighten you, but there is still good reason for you to be concerned. The pull out method is not a reliable method of birth control as im sure many women can tell you. Everytime you have unprotected sex, you are at risk of pregnancy. However, most of us have been in your situation at sometime and we can sympathise.
As you had unprotected sex less than 72 hours ago, you can still take the morning after pill. This will prevent you becoming pregnant. You can ask for this medication at your chemists or from a doctor and perhaps from local family planning centres in your area(check with them first).
Perhaps you would consider another form of birth control? You could speak with your doctor about going on the pill or one of the many other forms of pregnancy prevention. Your doctor or practice nurse are the best people to advise you on the most suitable method of birth control for you. You and your boyfriend can still use condoms as well as alternative methods. It is your choice, and Im certain you do not want to experience this worry again.
Whatever birth control methods you decide upon in the future, always be aware that medication and illness can affect its efficacy. Get as much information as you can about how to use it properly and make sure you are properly protected.
Good luck,
Skye
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reader, 88jane +, writes (31 August 2007):
 ok hunny, well yes you can get pregnant even if your boyfriend doesnt ejaculate!! if you begin to get symptoms of pregnancy such as sickness, nipple darekening, missed period...then take a pregnancy test or visit your gp!
i hope you have learned from this and will use protection next time to save you from such worry!! the pull out method is a very poor form of contraception! use a condom....better to be safe than sorry!! and remember that condoms also protect from sexually transmitted infections!
good luck hunny!!
xxx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Of course you could be pregnant. Go to the drug store and buy a pregnancy test and follow the instructions.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (31 August 2007):
 okay u need to go to the doctors, the fact that uve had unprotected sex is worrying [trust me ive been there done tht and deeply regreeted it] and definetely i recommend the doctors, they can make sure that ur not pregnant, i recommend if ur not on ur pill, i suggest u go on it asap, and remember [i no it sounds patronising] to use condoms...only protection against STDS and all tht jumble
Email me if u wanna chat
Baybee-x-Sparkii
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reader, cuninglingwist +, writes (31 August 2007):
You sound like a twelve year old, well even if you are you can go to your local planned parenthood and get on the pill and they are not alowed to tell your parents!
Im sure there will be a lot of people telling you to stop, but you know, now that you have been opened youll become insatable, nothing ell.s will matter, so get protected, get on the pill today!.
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reader, hit-the-road,jack... +, writes (31 August 2007):
even if he didn't cum i still reckon you should get yourself some emergency contraception. if i ever have unprotected sex even if its just for like 3 minutes i make sure i go get the morning after pill just in case.
right you can take the morning after pill up to 72 hours after having unprotected sex so if you work out its been less than 72 hours id go and get that from a gp or a pharmacy.
if its been longer than that then you might have to either use a different form of emergency contraception, or just hope for the best and see whether your period arrives or not.
good luck, and make sure next time you use protection!
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