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Is there some pill I could take to kill the egg?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he only did a quick in and out and he said for sure he didn't have pre cum and he normally feels it when he does. I'm still scared I'm pregnant, could I be? and if I could be is there some pill I ...

A.   8 January 2009: Well yes, you could always take the morning after pill but im pretty sure it is only effective if you just had sex yesterday and also you need to be 18 to purchase it. its about 50 dollars. Good luck! i hope everything turns out okay!... (read in full...)

I'm scared I'm not big enough for her!

Q.   I have never had sex but me and my girlfriend want to. I worry about my penis. I measured it and it's 5.5 inches but I'm only sixteen. Her ex was about 2 or 3 inches longer from what I've been told. I'm scared....

A.   6 January 2009: im 17 years old and my boyfriend did the same exact thing to me. It took him 8 months for him to even let me go near that area. He told me that was it because of his size and i pretty much told him that he was insane. Girlfriends will like you for ... (read in full...)

Take the lead and ask him out?

Q.   dear,anyone i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im not sure.we've been friends for about a year.we both have never been in a relationship and im scared to ask him out and he has not even tried. should i take the lead...

A.   5 January 2009: I think that you should just take the chance. The worst he could say is no. What do you have to lose? Just give it a try. It could turn into something really great. :)... (read in full...)

How can I forget about my ex-girlfriend?

Q.   How can I forget about my ex-girlfriend? I really loved her. And she said she loved me with all her heart. But we broke up in the end, she never gave me a good reason. She just said that feelings faded away. I have been sad for a few months now. ...

A.   5 January 2009: Break ups are never easy but with time, you can overcome them. It seems that you are forced to see this girl everyday, making it impossible to keep your distance. I would tell you to pretend that she isnt there although that would deffinately be ... (read in full...)

I'm gay and want to tell one of my best friends but just don't know how to tell her. Please help!!!!

Q.   Ok I'm just gonna say it all at I de so bare with me. I 15 and I'm an the closet gay. I have a really really good friend who live across the road from me. We hang out all the time and go to the service station for slurpees all the time together. I ...

A.   5 January 2009: hmm.. well i understand that you are scared because you arent sure of how she will react but a good friend will accept you for who and what you are. You dont need to have a big plan on how to tell her and you dont need to be ashamed and hide it. Im ... (read in full...)

How do I get over this guy I've been in love with 5 months?

Q.   HEy you guys!!!its lotmoney13 Well i have this thought that it would be nice to start off the new year NOT being in a heart-ache! so yeah i'm still in love with HIM, but i'd really like to move on now! So i'm asking for advice on how to get...

A.   31 December 2008: Well you didnt give too much information on how much you see this guy and whats happened in the past between you two. However, id say that the best way to get over someone is to have space between the two of you. You cant expect yourself to forget ... (read in full...)

I love my g/f but I'm having phone sex! Do I tell her?

Q.   hi, i'm 17 years old and so is my girlfriend. i love her but i kept talking to other girls and saying they're my wife and girlfriend and another i was having phone sex with and my door wasn't closed and i was over the covers. and my mom walked in on ...

A.   31 December 2008: well its hard to say because i dont know your girlfriends personality but i am a 17 year old girl. its possible that she could realize you made a huge mistake and then just put it all behind her, but you have to show her that you are really sorry. ... (read in full...)

I have a new boyfriend now but I want to get back with my ex!

Q.   My ex boyfriend and I were together about five months. And through that entire five months we were soo happy together. We did everything with each other and spent nearly the entire day together all day every day. He would always want to see me and I ...

A.   20 December 2008: Well honestly i think that once you fall in love with someone, it never will fully go away. So in that case, i really dont recommend that you ignore your feelings for your ex. I think that you should actually call him up, or maybe go over his house ... (read in full...)

15 and might be pregnant!!!

Q.   Hi im only 15 and i think i might be pregnant. I'm soooo scared and i had sex (for the first time) about 2 weeks ago. And we started than stopped right away. We didnt use protection (which is soo stupid now), and i missed my period. (My periods ...

A.   16 December 2008: well.. its your very first time having sex, so of course pregnancy automatically comes to your mind. Dont go getting insane right away though. Just because you miss your period doesnt mean anything. it could be late, or could just not come at all ... (read in full...)

I feel stupid!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend broke up and right after we broke up on wednesday we talked like 10 seconds later then after that 15 minutes later and then we talked Thursday, Friday, and Saturday about the break up. Well it's more like me questioning him about ...

A.   14 December 2008: well it seems to me that your ex is the typical guy. he appears to have alot of confidence in himself, and sorry to say this but youre only making him hold his head higher. He knows for a fact now that he has the ability to hurt you. In other words, ... (read in full...)

Is it love?

Q.   ok so theres this guy hes a year older but i hang out with almost ever day he recently broke his phone and sence then we havent been talking as much but sence then i realized that i think i might be in love with him i mean we are not dating but hes ...

A.   14 December 2008: hey. well to start off, im not going to classify all men as bad people, but you have to watch out for thoes who are only trying to get something out of you. its great that you feel like youre falling in love, but you really should make sure that you ... (read in full...)

I think I may be turning gay?

Q.   I think i may be turning gay? what do you reckon, kinda messed up innit? Hey, I'm 17 and a boy. it appears confusing to me, but hopefully you'll understand more at the end. Anyway here goes, i pretty much like girls but over the past 12 mon...

A.   14 December 2008: hey. so it seems that youre a bit confused but you should really know that there is nothing wrong with being gay. i have an older sibling who is gay as well, so ive heard that it takes much courage to admit to it. You said that you feel like you ... (read in full...)

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