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writes:Well i have been with my partner for 3 years. ^ months ago we split up dor 6 months but he said he loved me and wanted me back. When we got back together all our previous problems seemed to have dispppeared and he proposed. Wedding is in 9 weeks and is all paid for im also pregnant. Since I have fallen pregnant he has become very critical of me which has led me to be in tears several times... stating dont interrupt me all the time, listen to me when im talking to you if i slightly turn my head, saying he pays for evrything when he dosnt, critices my cooking and has started to complain when i buy things for myself.... he does humanitarian aid work and wants to go away in novemeber but the baby will be due in 2 months and i simply said what if the baby comes early now he saying i control his life, he gives everything up for me and i dont him.The bottom line is i cant talk to anyone how i feel as we are meant to be this happy couple who are pregnant and getting married in 9 weeks and any how my best friend would simply say told you so as she never thought we should get back together.. I'm in my 30's and have wanted a baby for so long but I feel so scared being tied to this man (as i would need the practical and financial support)and have even considered a late abortion which as im typing this cant beleive im saying it but he makes me so miserable.... Tonight i left the lounge crying my heart out and he just left me and has gone boxing club which is 3 hours! I do not know what to do the wedding has cost us £10,000.....Im so lost and depressedPlease advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): Don't marry him.
You can still keep the baby, you seem to want it.
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reader, based51  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Which would you rather lose, £10,000 or you happiness?
If you know deep in your heart that you truly don't want to marry this guy then don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2011): I agree with the first post. You shouldn't marry this guy who treats you like your nothing. He should be there for you since your carrying his child. Verbal abuse is not right. Life will get tough but hold on and be strong. But not with this guy your about to marry. Good luck!
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (25 July 2011):
 Sorry to say but you shouldn't marry this guy. He has no right to treat you this way. He knew things were going to be different since you got pregnant and he shouldn't be treating you this way when you need him during this time. Don't marry this guy.
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