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writes:I am 20 years old and just had my first child. She was born March 27 2012 . Problem is is I don't know who her father is. I had sex May 30 2011 with my ex boyfriend e and on June 29 2011 with my current boyfriend. I remember the doctors giving me an ultra sound because I wasn't sure when was my lmp. I believe she said around june 12 or 15 . July 13 2011 is when I found out I was pregnant. November 2011 is when I found out she was a girl and I was 5 months then. I'm not sure which guy is her father. I'm thinking my current boyfriend the guy in june. Since I had sex with my ex boyfriend late may and got my period in june and didn't get it since then after I had sex with my current boyfriend. Don't I go 40 weeks back to the day I had intercourse? I'm so confused someone pleeeease help me :(
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reader, Serpico +, writes (10 July 2012):
I wonder - who BELIEVES he os the father?>
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 July 2012):
 have a DNA test for peace of mind but I agree it's probably the current BF...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2012): Get some condoms and an education.
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (10 July 2012):
current boyfriend has to be the dad. if you want peace of mind do a DNA
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 July 2012):
 A DNA test will be the only thing that will tell you for sure, but odds lean more in favor with your current BF.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (9 July 2012):
 Wow, can't believe i actually had to do math then!!! Seems as though that your current boyfriend is most likely the father. You say you had sex with your ex, then had a period. So it's unlikely that your ex is the father.
The only way to know for definate is to get a DNA test, but it's whether you're willing to risk the relationship you have with your current bf...
Good luck :)
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reader, AbigailBradbury +, writes (9 July 2012):
 ... DNA.
I know you're probably looking for an easy answer hun but you need to be sure.
Yes, you can try and calculate dates and stuff but you'll never truly be sure. I'm afraid this is what happens when you have sex within a few months and can't work it out.
You're not a bad mum because of this. Don't feel ashamed that you don't know the dad. At least you're trying to fix it. Many women would just go with their current boyfriend because it's easier.
You'll kick yourself if you don't sort this.7
Good luck and what ever the answer, you'll always have your baby. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2012): You can't get your period if you are pregnant, that's a fact. Some women get some insignificAnt bleeding during pregnancy, some claim they didn't know they were pregnant because they still were getting periods, but I don't know if it's believable. This is how it works, you get pregnant, your period stops. And for 9 months and also if you are nursing you don't get your periods.
So, the fact that you got your period after you had sex with your ex clearly signifies that he is not the father.
The fact that you found out about your pregnancy being only 2 week pregnant is possible if you used HPK.
Doctors can't always say for sure when you got pregnant, a mistake of couple weeks here and there is very common.
If you worry so much why not just get a test. It's very easy, they just compare DNA of your current boyfriend and your child. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2012): Well I guess you're going to have to come clean and tell both guys that you require a DNA test from the pair of them, as you've been very silly and had sex with both of them in close proximity and are now unsure who the father is...
And there is condoms available amongst other contraception if you're not planning to get pregnant.
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