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writes:I have issues!!!!Im incredibly insecure and I wish I wasnt...I dont know what to do! Thing is I know they are based on my weight, im not a skinny girl but im not exactly obese either but nontheless im overweight, but my bf likes girls with meat on them so...ergh idk!!Last night I found out the name of my bf's ex gf and I searched for her...he never talks about her so I wanted to see specifically what she looks like and then secondly maybe a little glimpse of what shes like but overall I dont care I just want to see what she looks like. Well I cant find her, Ive searched facebook, twitter, bebo, myspace and nothing ive even typed in the last name and location and looked through other peoples profiles who could potentially be related to her and nothing. Its that bad I think I wasted between an hour and two looking for this girl, maybe longer im not to sure.Secondly we were talking about something in the news recently and I joked yeah they can go to hooters, and then he says yeah hooters all truly are filled with beautiful girls with real big boobs to which I replied well actually not all but close enough then he admitted last time (im not sure when that was, whether he knew me or not) he went with his dad, uncle and cousins (family somthing or other) and his dad had to order for him cuz he was too busy looking at boobs and how he could barely eat his food cuz all he did was stare at the waitresses, so now Im actually sitting here rather pissed off.Im like a jealous and insecure mess and I hate it yet it wont go away. Like I mean im mad at him now for even telling me that and its like ergh like guys dont stare at girls...I guess I just want to be the only girl he stares at, because clearly I am one of those girls who thinks the second he looks at another girl he's thinking how hot/sexy/beautiful/gorgeous figure or watever compared to me and how he wants her opposed to me.
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reader, Battista  +, writes (13 March 2011):
You yourself realise that you have a problem and that is a good start.I think maybe you should try and get some counselling for your jealousy/low self esteem issues. The problem is that you are going to drive your bf away by behaving like this, and then it turns into a vicious circle.Have a look into seeing a therapist. It's definitely a positive thing to do.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 that Hooters night was probably a long time ago. Was he supposed to be a cloistered Monk up to the day he met you? He told you himself, openly, that he went to the place, and who he went with. No secrets. Nothing to worry about at all.I would discount it as an issue entirely.Be a different matter if he went there once a week and alone.Please give the guy a break on that one.Now the missing ex?Have you considered that his ex could now be happily married now? That would explain why you cannot find her name.Or she could be very internet savvy, and knows how to keep a low profile. Whichever way you look at it, she does not want to be found.She may also be in a committed stable relationship where she and her new guy are so engrossed in loving each other that they decided to delete all their social networking sites. So she and he can live a quieter peaceful life together.Your guy just needs to be loved, but you will drive him away if you cannot deal with jealousy. Just love your guy to bits,
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