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*cutie9389
writes:Help! I'm in love with a guy who has told me to leave him alone about 4 weeks ago which now I admit I was wrong, but I made a mistake. One: this guy who we've been close for 2 years told me in November that finally him and his gf broke up and since then we became friends again and he also likes me and I've liked him too but I wouldn't date him or anything until a couple of months passed from his last relationship so I did. He would tell me how he loves me cares for me and how he wants me to be his girlfriend and a lot more stuff. One week he began acting weird by not talking to me for that entire week. Then he suddenly texted me that he got into college..then he wouldn't talk to me until a week after he texted me hey..The problem happened when I was bored on Facebook and I was on my cousins page and I saw his ex gf on my cousins page with a picture of the guy I'm seeing and the ex gf who has every picture in her facebook of him, them two? if they broke up why would you keep pictures of your ex? I even asked him a couple of weeks ago why his ex leave comments on facebook like they are still together and he really never responded to it, so I just ignored it. Seeing the pictures kind of hit an emotion so I asked her myself (big mistake) because all it did was cause the guy I was seeing to yell at me and he accused me of playing games ( I honestly wasn't trying to play games I needed to know the truth) This guy knows I've been in love with him and telling me they broke up and I basically been staying home to talk to him and there's no excuse because I know I was wrong to ask her. I should of waited for him but I feel like I asked him and he never responds and I needed to know and now he warned me to leave him alone and her alone.And I have it's been 4 weeks so now I just need to know what do I do and for some reason I love this guy he just doesn't understand I've been there for him through a lot of his drama and I've been loyal and I know I made a mistake but it was just a mistake and a bad one so what should I do??
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (11 February 2011):
 hes playing u sweety. he never really left her. move on.
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reader, $izZle  +, writes (11 February 2011):
 hi,
I'm going to speak for myself ... I feel that after you asked him to clarify he owed you an explanation and his silence was not much of an answer ....
to be honest I don't think what you did was a mistake coz when he is not ready to take initiative you had no other choice but to take ownership and find out for yourself to get rid of the annoying feeling that thought in your mind... so stop saying that you made a mistake...
I'f he knows that you love him so much and if he does appreciate all that you did for him he would have come clean by now and would have never kept secrets from you and told you everything .... but that's not the case here ....so I feel he is not worth it ... but that is for you to decide
I'f he is not ready to be honest with you I don't know how you guys are planning to stick together coz you need something called as love honesty and courage to stand out for each other ...
I have never been in a relationship so I'm just going to say its for you to decide but I have learnt something ... in a relationship never try to dig too deep unless he is being honest with you ... all I can say at this time is just be patient give it some time and lets see what happens :)
btw I really do think that he need to learn to stand up to his faults too and not yell at you ... I still can't believe that he told you to leave her alone instead of noticing that you need to be calmed down and all you needed was for him to come clean ...zZz
sorry I talk too much trash :P
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