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30-35,
*omance_boy18
writes:hey everyone, ive been totally feeling different ever since i lost my virginity. heres how it started, i went on this 1 mobile chat site and met up with this 1 woman. we went to her place and... did it. she was nice and kind but its just that sex didnt really turned me on at all. i started to feel depressed slowly day after day. plus im kinda curious to try something with another guy. why did i feel that way u think?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 I think you feel that way because you just became sexually active and you wish to explore! Happens to most people. Also, I think you felt disappointed because you really didn't want just sex with a woman you barely knew, you wanted something more. So perhaps look for a real relationship, I promise you the sex will feel complitely dofferent once you care about the person you are with.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 While it's not unusual at all having fantasies or being curios about same-sex experiences,I think you feel this way just because you have discovered a simple basic truth :
peformational sex, without feelings or without at least a strong physical attraction, may be a very bland ,boring experience , sort of like dental cleaning. You feel bettter after having it done, but you can't say it was exciting.
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