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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay so, I met this guy in an online game, we started getting to know eachother better and we were very clear nothing was to be expected but then things changed. We started to get to know eachother better and shared real life details (the game we both play is second life) he is twelve years older than me, still lives with his kids mother (5kids total). So we started flirting and got together in the game we both realized we lived 1 hour away and set up days to meet up, the first time we met was at a public place I took precautions for my safety he seemed really cool and so we talked more. We Skyped texted webcamed. And then got to know his kids mother. Who was totally fine with me I guess game dating him, and was even more okay with us seeing eachother in real life. Which mind you is extremely weird to me. The second time we hung out we did things got involved and now he's kind of my significant other however I know for a fact il never get him 100% because of his situation. Which we both ignore from time to time he has said he loves me and I don't exactly feel I do, I think I'm more Into the thrill of it. And now things get more complicate as I find out his kids mother is bisexual which I don't mind except she is starting to hit on me and the occasional time they're drunk they suggest three sums all the time. Which I'mnot sure at times, I've mentioned all this to my friends and they seem to say be careful, I might be they're pray thing but it's just so crazy because she keeps talking to me and treating me as a really close best friend. And it's weird. Not to mention she's also dating someone else online. I feel as if I'm in some sort of three person relationship, and I don't know how I feel I mean il fully aware about the situation I like the guy. Just not sure how I feel about her coming along all the time or her hitting on me, or suggesting three sums. Part of me wants to take this to the adventure side. And it's cool that they seem to be okay with it however, a slight part of me tells me it's super wrong, specially because of the age difference 12 years, his 5 kids and his kids mother. And how weird it seems on my side, they both aren't married and he constantly says things between them don't always work but to her it's like they're in an open relationship. Give me some insight?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2014): I think they're in an open marriage and are lookking for fun. Watch out. I'd stop all contact.
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reader, Geta +, writes (25 January 2014):
I sense a setup... By a married couple with polymorphous life style seeking a "unicorn" or a young girlfriend that an older, married couple want to enjoy. Among swingers and others, unicorns are considered rare and extremely desirable. So, the way to woo a unicorn is by a male seducing a heterosexual girl line you and then, using open mi deadness, woo you in a bisexual relationship of a 3some. Your relationship with that man is on the cusp of becoming a unicorn predicament. I don't know what your sexual needs and desires are but you have to decide whether you want to be someone's sexual appendage or have a monogamous relationship. If latter you may want to break up and find a man of age closer to yours. If former... Well you seem to have desires to do it. Your call.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2014):
How long have you known him ( them) ??
This could just very well be a game they play for extra adventure .,. He is still with his partner and their kids and yet has you hmm they instigate talking about 3sums with you hmm
My radar is up and saying ' players players ' and I don't mean gamers .. The game they want is more serious
End this you will end up hurt n used
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