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writes: It's like this, we had been going out for a month and now she tell me that she's not in the right state of mind for a relationship, she said that she want to be good friends and we may get back together when she's ready for a relationship. The thing is everyone says just let go and move on but it's not that easy because we really enjoy each others company and she really brings me out my shell. I don't want to move on but have no idea what to do to. Any advice ?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (16 July 2011):
 Think about how you feel when you are 'out of your shell.' How is it that she draws you out? How can you replicate those feelings without depending on her to do it for you?
Unfortunately, most of us experience a breakup in our lives, it's just part of being human. Rejection is not nice but it is survivable, and may teach you something about yourself.
There's a great thread here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-your-ex.html
You've only been dating one month, so the good news is that you haven't wasted a great deal of time investing in a woman who doesn't reciprocate your feelings.
Tell your friends that you need some distractions. Do the things you know you enjoy. Nurture yourself.
I hope this helps a little!
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