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I'm a virgin but my girlfriend has been with 10 men already - and shown me a video of herself and an ex

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Question - (13 September 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2011)
A age 36-40, * writes:

me and my gf have been togehter for 6 months...she is my first gf whereas i'm her 11th bf...she has told me that shes been sexually active with all the 10 guys..i have had no past sexual experience...last week on my insistence she told me all about her past specially the sexual past...she lost her viginity at the age of 18 and within 5 years she is on her 11 bf who is me..she said her relationships didnt work because she was stubborn for a few things...

she has had an intercourse everyday since she was 18 and she says that she doesn't find sex exciting any more....she told me that she had oral sex with every guy she dated and would love to give her guys a blow job...she even showed me videos where she's giving a blow job to her bf....hearing all this and seeing it with my own eyes...i'm shocked

i wanna ask if i should stay with her for her being honest or leave her for doing all she did

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (15 September 2011):

angelDlite agony auntmaybe a break from women will be good at the moment but please do not let this unusual individual put you off ever wanting to have a relationship. i do not know ANYONE who would show their boyfriend a sex video of themselves with another man. your current girlfriend's behaviour is really not how normal people behave

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2011):

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thanks mates...i'm giving up the women

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (14 September 2011):

DoubleM agony auntI'd try to make sure the door doesn't smack me in the butt as I leave, right after one final blow job.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011):

well she does not find sex exciting any more because she has given her self to so many guys , everyday for the past 5 years . sex has become just something to do, there is nothing special about it because she has had sex with guys for fun and good times every day for 5 years and has taken away anything that could be special about it with someone special that would have meaning and purpose. i am afraid the longer you stay with her the more her past will haunt you. seeing videos is not going to help things either. my advice run.

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A female reader, babylav India +, writes (13 September 2011):

omg ..whats wrong with you? leave her...point blank im sorry to say but the truth is that she's a slut!what sort of a person would hurt the partner by showing a video like that..she is so insensitive ...why on earth do you want her?

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2011):

angelDlite agony auntshe showed you a video of herself giving someone a BJ?? there is honesty and there is THAT. no normal woman would show their virgin boyfriend a video like that, if she has any care or respect for you. is she trying to totally put you off the idea of sex just because she had had enough of it?

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A male reader, soon567 United States +, writes (13 September 2011):

My mother told me once to take a good look at the person youre with. If you cannot see yourself with them in 20 years then leave them at that point. Your girl had two guys a year that she serviced until she found you. Now if thats a wife to you then stop complaining and let it go. Watch a video, i wouldnt have been there b4 she finish tell me the 10 she already serviced. How can you look at her and tell her how muh you love her without seeing vision of countless men doing her like a street corner girl.

What you need to decide for yourself is what you can tolerate and what you can not, everytime she late or go someone where regardless if this happen b4 she met you you will accuse her of being unfaithful. Why put germ through that. Her past wouldnt bother me today but when I was younger it would have bother me to the point that no matter how much I thought I loved her, it would be a deal killer.

You need to let her go if you love her cause your going to cause pain that she cannot cure, solve, or correct ever.

Let this go.

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