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I'm a girl, and I like my friend(girl) but I don't know how to tell if she likes me back

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Question - (16 June 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, Im not too young, but im pretty young..... im about to go in high school (graduating on the 24th of June) but i think ive fallen for one of my female friends..... i never felt this way before! we just have so much in common: we both draw, were both shy, were both bi curious, (we admitted it to each other while chatting on facebook) we have the same views, and we even sometimes seem to read each other's minds!

anyway, in my eyes,shes so beaitiful and kind, and we can talk about anything! but the part that confuses me, is that i dont know how SHE fees about the situation. last friday, june 10th,she texted me "btw, i luv u ;)" it just felt so nice........ i didnt delete the text. she just gushes more than usual around me (probably b/c im like her twin, when it comes to personality and thoughts; not looks. but i dont kno) i visited her house just yesterday and was so excited. we had so much fun hangin out together. soetimes i day dream about her coming so close to me, and laying one right on me. and sonetimes i get so nervous... my personality changes aroung her compared toother gals. shes so cute and short, were both skinny, but im tall. when wee talking, i find myself looking at her lips (its a habit) and i hope she doesnt notice. shes so kind and welcoming, and her hugs are so warm.

again, on june 10th, we were talking about a stupid boy that broke her heart, nd i was jokingly saying "oh, do u need a hug?" and we hugged and she said "ur so warm! don't let go!" and we started laughing idk..... its so confusing! i luv her, but it's the end of the year! what do i do?! how can i tell if she feels the same way? plz give me tips! it wouldbe much appreciated! thx :)

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A female reader, fishdish United States +, writes (17 June 2011):

fishdish agony auntat least if you made a move now and it didn't work, then you'd have the full summer to recuperate. I'd consider asking for a slow dance if you all have a graduation party, or ask her out to a movie and try to become more than friends.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011):

Maybe she just treated you as her best friend....Maybe she texted that she loves you as only 'friend love', not that kind of love....you should remain the same as if she really loves you, she will take action...Because not one will see their love ones graduate and go away

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A male reader, kevin3007 United States +, writes (16 June 2011):

kevin3007 agony auntwhy want you make some jokes like :"if you're sick of boys you can have me i can make you happy" ....and see where things can go ....i don't know if you girls struggle because struggling does magic .....tell her that she has beautiful lips and wish that you would be kissed by some body who has her lips (try not to freak her)......spend more time together and win her trust .....good luck with big love

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