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I'm a 14 year old girl and can't stop masturbating to lesbian porn!

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Question - (2 January 2008) 60 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2010)
A female United States age 18-21, *AYL0Rshawtyy. writes:

What`s wrong with me!? Okay I`m 14 years old and I littrally just turned 14 last week. Anyway, I`m obsessed with masturbating! I`ve been doing it since I was 12. When I first got the internet on my computer at the age of 12 my parents said "dont look at things you shouldnt" and thats one of the first things I did when they left. Now, I`m a masturbating machine. When everyone falls asleep I lock my door and search websites to masturbate to. [I use my fingers]. This is what I want to know, everytime I search sites, I always look up lesbian porn sites. I`m always masturbating to lesbian porn and I can`t stop it!!! Does this make me a lesbian?!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010):

I'm am 14 and I watch lesbian porn when my parents go to bed .it's totally normal, your just experimenting

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A female reader, xsincerelyme United States +, writes (26 May 2010):

I do too! im fourteen, just turned it a few months ago, and i've been doing it since i was 12.

But I've always wondered what it's like to be with a girl but it doesnt seem like me cause I only hook up with guys. So I wouldn't know how to answer your question, just a weird coiunsidense(:

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009):

This does not mkae you lesbain by far. Me and my wife and watched porn befre and sheonlt what to watch lesbain porn and she is not bisexully or lesbain she just find more sexy wehn gril do instead of guys mabey you just find gril more sexy then guys but that dones not make you an lesbain. But if you are still unsure the only way to try is to kiss a gils and see what fealling youhave then you will know fore sure hopw this help you out some. good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009):

no, you like masturbating its no big deal

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009):

hi im a 14 yr old girl i have watching alot of porn lesbian and straight for about 3 yrs now and i have found i am bi

i masturbate to lots of girls

sometime i invite my mates round for 'parties' and have lots of fun

keep masturbating xxxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

i dunno y but i like gay porn and lezie porn but im not gay or bi

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009):

meee tooo!! i love to masturbate im 13 almost 14 i always watch lesbians porn idk it makes me horny but i like guys just ask yourself what turns you on girls or guys?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

Wats wrong with it were just exploring ourselves who cares wat somebody else thinks I masturbate everyday and I don't Feel ashamed

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009):

MOD NOTE: to the anonymous poster who asked the OP two very personal, inappropriate questions, that WILL NOT be accepted on this site.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009):

I'm fifteen years old &+ masturbate to mostly girls masturbating. I am 110% not a lesbian. Masturbating is a healthy thing for a young women.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009):

no actually its just your curiosity. All people do it. So it does not make you a lesbian. & when you masturbate its bacause seeing it makes you want it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

Hey I'm a 13 year old girl and i masturbate to both gay porn and lesbian porn. But miostly lesbian porn. I feel so ashamed of myself but i just can't stop you know? I started watching that when I was about 10 or 11. I dunno but it's addicting. maybe once we get older enough, you know, maybe we might out grow from it. But if we can't we just keep trying to tell ourselves that it doesn't matter what others think of me. just believe that you know you're just doing it just because we're at the age of course but i hope u got wat i meant. hope it helped

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

if you like guys you are not a lesdian

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

Hay , i am 14 years old and i am from Slovenia, Europa

i started mastrubating when i was 11 , and i still do it.

i mastrubate 3-9 times a day and i watch only lesbian porn=)

i tought that girls arent that horny as we are , but

they are more horny than us

8==D

my english is bad =)

AND I AM HORNY =)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009):

im glad i found this page. i feel normal too now! i ecspecially like watchin lesbians have oral sex! it turns me on. and in no time im masturbating to climax! :D x happy masturbating

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

i am also 14 and i have just got a laptop for my birthday.i masturbate also wen my parents are asleep by watching porn of all kinds, i don't think it makes u a lesbian as we are just finding ourselves.i am also really embarrased about this but i guess as we get older then things will turn out some way which makes it all easier to understand.

keep pleasuring urself.

love the rampant rabbit.

x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

no it just means you maybe curious or it may be a fantasy of yours.I am also forteen and also masturbate by watching porn, although i am embarassed about admitting this. Do not worry.

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A male reader, moltres8 Portugal +, writes (23 July 2009):

Im a 14 year old boy and i do the same i think that makes u lesbian or bi but im not sure but its normal to masturbate with this age

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A male reader, Mr.Independence United States +, writes (24 April 2009):

Masturbating is completely normal, and no watching lesbian porn dosn't make you a lesbian, just like most men watch gay porn,it dosnt make them gay, your changing and still developing,at your age your body dosnt quite know the difference between lesbian porn and strait porn, your body and mind just think of it as plain porn(depending on your gender is what type of porn you watch, boys watch boys, girls watch girls), until you age a little bit more, your body wont understand the difference. Bottom line, dont worry about it :) you have quite a ways to go untill you can even begin to be called lesbian

Hope this helped :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009):

Masturbating is completely normal, and no watching lesbian porn dosn't make you a lesbian, just like most men watch gay porn,it dosnt make them gay, your changing and still developing,at your age your body dosnt quite know the difference between lesbian porn and strait porn, your body and mind just think of it as plain porn(depending on your gender is what type of porn you watch, boys watch boys, girls watch girls), until you age a little bit more, your body wont understand the difference. Bottom line, dont worry about it :) you have quite a ways to go untill you can even begin to be called lesbian

Hope this helped :)

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A male reader, Daldazar Croatia +, writes (17 April 2009):

Hello. I had same thing

I started on my 11th birthday when my friend downloaded porn on my PC... I still have it I can't stop cuming on it!

Now Im 14 and I allmost had sex with my GF. I stoped it. Try watching same porn 1million times and youl stop it. Than yust relax

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A female reader, jazzythetank United States +, writes (22 March 2009):

jazzythetank agony auntnope im 14 and did the same for a while...it's just a phase youll get over it cause i did except i wathed a show on HBO and started when i was 11

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009):

i am 15 and i do the sex with the girls in my colegee in the bathroom when its class time.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009):

I'm a boy and I cant stop masturbating too, but I don't see gay porn (just lesbian). I also tought that it was strange, but relax, there's no problem. just don't show on the net!

see ya

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A male reader, Ashkelot United States +, writes (25 February 2009):

Ashkelot agony aunthi, i am a 14 year old boy and i think that is totally normal for you to masturbate at age for boys but for girls is a littel bit weird but dont think isterrible

youre in age that what to experiment new thinks and i think you dont have to worry, it dosent make you a lesbian and i see lesbian sides to i guess is better because it is deeper and more exited. okgood bye

contact me see ya.

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A male reader, Tom Foolery United States +, writes (5 August 2008):

If you could not 100% understand my last reply, then. If you are watching a male masturbate you cannot understand what they are feeling, and there is no way you will ever. Unless you have a sex change. Watching female porn will just get you more horny, and in the mood for a sexual encounter because you understand the feeling more, and now that it is indeed pleaserable. Your welcome =)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008):

well its not a bad thing to masturbate ;) im 14 and i do it to :P and if you like lesbians and that swort of crap its nothing wrong happening with you, you are just curios ;) so fell free to continue :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008):

I just want to tell you all from my experience. I am 29 years old and up til this day, could not fathom why I prefered watching females masturbate rather than men. I must tell you, I loooooove men! I love their smell, they look, their manliness. and could not for one second imagine kissing or sexually being with someone like myself, a woman. The very thought of it wierds me out. I end up feeling like the food in my stomache is churning (no disrespect to the lesbians out there).

I would like to reassure you that it is normal. If we look at it from a womans perspective, it is easier for us women to become sexually aroused by what we emotionally and physically sense or have experienced. We all know how good it feels to masturbate! When we see the facial expressions of another females enjoying ecstasy. We know from ourselves by hearing those higher pitched moans, she is close to orgasm. With a man......even though you may be biologically and sexually attracted to him, watching them is just straight boring!!! They just keep stroking, no facial expressions, and with one grunt it's all over with. What kind of fun is that?

The female experience gives us the waves of high and low in approaching and orgasm along with great facial expressions, to let us know just how she feels and in return how we have felt many times ourselves.

In conclusion, I would say that lesbian porn is more of a discovery/experimental tool that the majority of females use. It is just our nature as emotionally intune females to be turned on by other females in bonding, leading to a pleasurable experience.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008):

u shouldnt worry some girls i know do the same

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

no it doesnt make you a lesbian your just experementing and you could just be bisexual.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

Not really but our minds just think that a certain thing makes us horny.

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A female reader, TAYL0Rshawtyy. United States +, writes (31 March 2008):

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TAYL0Rshawtyy. agony auntthanks for your answers !

xx . taylor *

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

Im 14. And i do the exat same thing. Lesbian porn just seems to get to me. A couple of times i wondered about my sexuality. But i know im straight. and apparently since alot of girls have been tellin you the same thing i am telling you right now; it must be normal.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008):

It's practicly normal im 13 and im a boy, and I like girls. But on the computer i like to masturbate to gay porn. Its normal for a human to masturbate to sexy stuff.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008):

i think this is natural and a rite of passage. I'm 18 and for years i have fancied this girl but i love guys and i'm not bi. I always wanted to be taken over and controlled when i was wiv a guy but with girls i would wanna be in charge. personally i think it's to do with the fact that women are much more tender and have a sensual appearance and ora about them whereas men can be masculine and dominant. Having something gorgeous to look at is arousing so I can see where yr coming from, dont be scared of this at all but embrace it. No one cares nowadays anyway so relax... mastibate away my child xxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

It might. It sometimes seems a lot of women are bi-sexual nowadays or maybe that is just my personal experience.

Twenty years ago a FFM threesome was a purely male fantasy, nowadays women suggest it.

Try looking at some hetero or homosexual porn, do men not turn you on at all? Then yes, you are probably gay, although at your age you are still very much finding out what you like and don't like. Simply put, it might just be a phase.

A thing to remember is that lesbian porn is often a lot more gentle, if I was female and saw a Max Hardcore porn and a lesbian porn I would prefer the lesbian as well I think. If you are still afraid of sex then kissing and licking might be better to watch then a straight-to-ass vid.

Don't worry about it, keep it private and enjoy your life and growing up. No harm, no foul.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008):

hey it doesnt mean your a lesbian it mean your experimental

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

This may sound weird but I just started masturbating at 16 and now that I'm 17 I happened to have the same problem so I'm confused because there's this girl I like but I'm afraid to talking to her, anyway about your question it is normal at your age to feel curious about your sexuality so it's kind of normal what u' are doing, don't feel so bad you might go through this eventually as you grow up but me, I du kow

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008):

Hey I'm 14 too! The thing is that I can't stop masturbating to lesbian porn either! I just masturbate to SHEMALE lesbian porn! It gets me in the mood! After that I go to the bath and do some more with my dildo!! You should try it in a hot shower!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008):

NO, I BELIEVE IT JUST MAKES YOU CURIOUS, AT THAT AGE.. WAIT TO SEE WHAT YOU LIKE IN A COUPLE MORE YEARS AND THE OUTCOME MAY BE DIFFERENT

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008):

Hey Taylor... don't worry about it. I do the exacty same thing! I'm also fourteen, but just count yourself lucky... my computer is in the living room so I never get to do it while watching. Anyways, much love. Hope to talk later, you sound like a cool girl.

-Rachel :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008):

I am a 14 year old girl, just like you, and I like to masterbate to lesbian porn too!! It just gets me more excited! I know exactly how you feel, you are not alone! I used to question my sexuality, but I know I am straight. Don't worry, just do whatever you want for fun! It's your life!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008):

NO

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008):

i do the same thing as you, but then i'm a boy, it doesn't matter who your attracted too, your not a lesbian just because your get off to other lesbians,

i'm your age, i know what your going through

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A female reader, RL89 United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2008):

theres nothing wrong with you or masturbation. your 14, your allowed to be confused. it doesnt matter though. dont start getting ready to come out yet. your body and brain is still developing and therefor your hommones are raging. it happens to the best of us. just relax! take it easy. i used to masturbate all the time, still do but a lot less as im in a relationship. dont you worry hun. take care of yourself

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008):

hey i am from Australia and i am turning 16 soon and i dont no if i am gay or not like for most of my life i have want to be girl and i have never told any1 about that i have no idea what am i going to do in the future i dont no if i should get a sex change i no i really want to but im concernd about what my family my think

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008):

It doesnt mean your a lesbian, i used to do the same thing, but i like guys. I found out i was just doing it because most of the guy and girl pornos you find on the internet are mostly for a guys pleasure and not the girls, now with lesbian porn the girls are geting all the pleasure and you can picture yourself there more and geting all the attention, i didnt understand it until i thought about it and looked inside for the reason i did this. good luck in finding yourself =)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008):

Just try it with both sex's and see what happens from there or you'll never know and be stuck alone masturbating for the rest of you're life and that would suck big time!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008):

I do the exact same thing and im not a lesbian. I even have a crush at school. Its so perfectly normal and trust me your not alone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008):

lesbian, straight, bi-sexual, bi-curious, who cares theres nothin wrong with any of them. be who you are, masturbate all you want, to what you want, its healthy, i have a boyfriend and i still watch lesbian porn. i would even go as far as sayin i would try it myself, but one things for certain i wouldnt have a relationship with a girl, it would be a one off. go get yourself a rampant rabbit and have fun. x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008):

Yes. If you are masturbating to lesbian porn there is no doubt about it, you are interessted in the same sex.

Nothing to be ashamed of.

However, you need to ask yourself if you also like boys or not- what are you feeling towards them? Are they sexual feelings? If yes, then it is likely that you are bisexual.

If not, then you are just a lesbian.

Remember, there's nothing wrong with liking the same sex. It's perfectly fine.

Take care.

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A female reader, Crisy United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2008):

Crisy agony auntNo, if you like boys then it doesnt make you a lesbian unless you have feelings for girls. A lot of girls get off on lesbian porn, its just that none of them talk about it because their scared of being considered a lesbian.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony aunta gay friend of mine watches straight porn.. never understood that but hey whatever *shrugs*

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A female reader, mama2three United States +, writes (3 January 2008):

mama2three agony auntI think it's normal to masturbate a lot when you're that age...it's a healthy thing to do. After all, at least you're 'having sex' with someone you love lol!

Also, it's normal to be curious about your sexuality. Just because you look at lesbian porn does not mean you are a lesbian.

And a note: I'm 100% straight and I think women are sexy, I enjoy looking at porn with my husband. I could never see myself being with a woman, that would be weird to me, but I enjoy looking. Women are gorgeous, there's NOTHING ugly about the female body.

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A female reader, TAYL0Rshawtyy. United States +, writes (3 January 2008):

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TAYL0Rshawtyy. agony auntheyy, this is TAYL0R. thanks for answering. and to answer the question [AM i ATTRACTED T0 GiRLS AT SCH00l] N0! I never in my life said a girl was sexyy or fine or whatever! Thats why I was wondering. I masturbate to lesbians on the internet, but in the real world I would never think a girl or woman is sexy or anything. In real life, I'm attracted to strictly guys and on the internet its a whole different story.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

well alls i'm saying is, you want what you can't have. or you fantisize about things you don't want to happen.I.e like when people roll play about being robed or killed, they don't really want that.it's just a fantisy. catching my drift?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

im 14 and typed this question into google because i do this too... i love it and had lesbian sex with a girl i know. but i have a boyfriend too who i am attracted to in a different way. i think thats it. how are you attracted to guys and girls? we all see people in different ways i suppose

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

no it just means watching lesbians turns you on it doesnt mean you fancy lesbians or want to join in with them

dont worry its all natural a nd hormones at your age

explore your sexuality when you re older x

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A female reader, madgirl12 United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2008):

I know how you feel, I masturbate at lesbian porn! but apprently at like our age its normal so dont worry ok?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

Im 15 and do the same thing ( well just the looking not masturbating).. well outside of your "porn time" are your attracted to girls like at school?? If not you may just be confused..

Try to take some time away from it if your obsessed with it.

much love 3

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