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Am I some sort of sexual deviant?

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Question - (2 January 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2008)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Alright, so this question is going to be a bit weird, but here goes...

My friend sent me a site the other day as a joke, and when I opened the link it was hermaphrodite porn. And for whatever reason I got turned on by it.

I'm not gay beause I've never had any attraction to guys, but I feel a bit disturbed by the fact I found that to be a turn on.

Does that make me some kind of a sexual deviant or something? I'm not too sure what to make of it.

Thanks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

to the guy that posted this:

"I seen a animal movie once - disgusted and fascinated at the same time. Dusnt mean i will be visiting any farms (yuk) - just natural curiosity for the unusual."

thanks dude, ur my hero :D

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A female reader, hellogoodbye123 United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2008):

No it is natural to feel curious or even turned on by new and exciting things. but if you feel uncomfortable or guilty about it then it's probably best not to look again.

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A male reader, PAeng United States +, writes (2 January 2008):

I would say that you were turned on because of the shock value of what you just saw. I wouldn’t worry about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

no - it just makes you curious about 'things sexual'

this is quite natural - and doesnt make you gay or anything else

however - be careful that viewing such material doesnt become a deviant hobby as you may find that curiousity grows. I seen a animal movie once - disgusted and fascinated at the same time. Dusnt mean i will be visiting any farms (yuk) - just natural curiosity for the unusual

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntDeviant? hardly. Amature more like.

When it comes to personal prefference many.. strange or unusual things turn people on. My Ex used to get turned on by tears.. ( granted thats more of a fetish ) but that one always threw me for a loop.

As Different stroaks once said " What might be right for you, might not be right for some"

Personally i feel its because of the over exposure to porn in todays culture.

Hell back in my day you wanted porn you either have to find where your dad hid his or a kid would come to school with a bag of porno mags and rent them out... he made alot of money come to think of it. i think he directs porn now.

anyhow sexual urges are normal, i guess this is your Taboo. its wrong its dirty wtf am i looking at this for?!!?!

well.. only you can answer that.

as far as i'm concernd its not hurting anyone or yourself. ok so you have different tastes More power to you.

oh i probably should have throwen something in there about raging hormones and growing and curly hair. but you get the idea

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