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*rtchic509
writes:So...I'm best friends with my ex-boyfriend.We were together for 10 months, he was my first boyfriend, and my first love.We broke up because, although he said he loved me, he said he wanted to be alone. He kept having these days when he wouldn't really want to talk much to anybody...including me.Even though he says he still has stroooong feelings for me, he knows that neither of us could never be secure in a relationship with him feeling this way. Can you imagine it? Having someone love you unconditionally one day, and then not really noticing you the next day?I'd be lost, and always hurt!Bottom line...it's been 5 months since we split.We're best friends, we always talk, we call eachother...he's basically my brother...and I'm still in love with him.I want him back. Desperately. I find myself crying a lot when I think of the past, and I find myself always thinking of him. I know there are a lot of fish in the sea...but I want this fish.He seems fine now...and we've had intense encounters where we've almost kissed. We rarely flirt, but we both know how we feel for each other.I want him back.How do I make him want me back too? How do I become so unbelievably irresistable that he can't help but touch me or kiss me or ask me out again?Please...I need help.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Go out with other friends, go on dates with other guys, have a good time and enjoy yourself. If that doesn't do the trick then at least you haven't wasted your time.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 May 2010):
He's not coming back. It doesn't matter what you do. He's made his choice, and he's not coming back. If you don't move on, you risk losing dignity and you risk becoming a bit of an obsessed ex.
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