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writes:hi, well i have a question for guys i dont know what to think, my boyfriend and me we dont have sex but we try hand job he has see me naked and i think he likes because he always has an erection when he see me naked or when he touch me but he never never never comes :S its so frustrating this never happen to me before with my ex, i see my self and i will sound really vain but im beautiful and i think i got a good body, where ever i go people always look at me... but i dont know maybe for him im not enough, and he says with sex will be different but i dont believe him cause we have been together one year and i use everything im there with the hand job almost forn an hour and i know he enjoy it but is not enought to me, i use oil so he can enjoy more, and im sure i do a good hand job to him, like i said before with my ex before these never happen, maybe just with porno websites he can, do you think that if never comes with the hand job he will come having sex??? or not?? i dont think so..what do you think....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfirst thank you so much to answer to my doubt i feel better :) the anonymous guy who said that happen the something similar to him really helpful :)
and Tom14916 all the explanation you gave to me was absolutely interesting :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): Don't worry, I have trouble orgasming when receiving a hand job as well. As for head jobs, they're nice, but don't do anything for me either.
Intercourse, for me, is where it's at. Sounds like your fella is much the same.
Guys are visual creatures, so of course he wants to see you naked. Better you than some tart on a porn site yeah?
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reader, doublejack +, writes (1 November 2010):
Reaching a climax is 90% mental, so I wouldn't be alarmed if he can't orgasm from a hand job. It is probably something that he's just not into, rather than an indication of how attractive you are to him.
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reader, Tom14916 +, writes (1 November 2010):
 If he hasn't come after 10-15 minutes, then he's not getting enough stimulation to put him over the edge. Couple of things you can try. First, make sure you're not using so much oil that he can't feel anything. Start with a little, you can always add more. Second, if he's giving himself hand jobs or watching porn when you're away, ask him to stop for at least a few days. If too much oil or masturbation aren't problems, and you can get him close to coming, there are other things you can try. With one hand, gently make a ring with thumb/index fingers and pull his balls away from his body while jerking him with the other hand. Try it and see if it helps. If nothing else works, and he'll let you do something that some people might find gross, oil up a finger or two and push them in his butt and gently press on his prostate gland while jerking him with the other hand. His prostate is a little bump an inch or so inside his rectum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): that is not the case if you have sex he can come fast i have had a hand job before and it really to me awhile before i came. try this ask him how he would like it tease him a bit only rub his penis slightly and softly talk dirty tell him what you want to do to him and have him do the same get him to his maximum arousal and then maybe within a few moments he'll squirt his love juice. so try that oral is also and option if you want to have sexual activities without intercourse
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