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writes: He said it was because we live too far apart and I accepted that. Now he's dating a girl who lives near him but still wants to sleep with me. He calls me "hot" etc I've told him to leave me alone.I feel ugly :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2012): Actually, its quite the opposite. However, it does mean he only sees you in a sexual way, so you shoukd find someone else,
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reader, Relationship.Chef  +, writes (28 January 2012):
 Love, you're not ugly.
You ARE stupid for thinking that, and, you are clearly over-thinking his reaction to this situation.
Rather than dwell on childish reaction of this person, move on, and, find several men who'd treat you a great deal better than he has.
(Perhaps, someday, he'll understand what he lost. And, if he doesn't, it's his loss).
Best of luck, and, smile! :)
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (28 January 2012):
 He is a tool and honestly you are too good for him anyways.
It has nothing to do with your looks, it has to do with him being a total asshat.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (28 January 2012):
 I would say that it means it is the complete opposite. He is physically attracted to you but doesn't want a relationship. Personally I think that it is good that he is at least honest and didn't try to build a relationship and then only want sex. This way if you are not interested you can make the choice and be done with it. Life would be so much easier if people were honest about what they wanted from the other person.
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reader, katiekate +, writes (28 January 2012):
 Sounds like he's "into" you enough to have sex with you, but not enough to be in a relationship with you. Unless a guy is truly interested in you for more than just sex, you should move on and find someone who is! This guy probably just wants a booty call. You can do better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2012): http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-ex-fwb-who-now-has-a.html
I think this Douchebag is aware you suffer from low self esteem so is using you. Its easy to say you are HOT and sleep with you and cheat on his GF because to him; he only cares about getting off.
So being used would have me feeling pretty low and ugly too.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 He just wants sex and no strings. He obviously fancies you but only for sex. Sounds like he wants to use you.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 He wants to have sex because he finds you "hot". Enough said.
Now, that doesn't mean he has good intentions.
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