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*attie90
writes:hi everyone ok so heres the story, me and my boyfriend love each other very much but we drive each other mad. we were at the mall with his bestfriend and his gf. well me and her were hanging out while the guys did there own thing and we started talking about this girl that i used to be really good friends with and i heard about 1 month ago that he had sex with her. I talked to him about he said no why would i do that shes your bestfriend and i dont like her like that. ok hes never lied to me before so why wont i believe him? but when we were hanging out she told me that they had sex more than once. the thing is is that i barely know her so i dont know what to believe. hes never lied to me and i just met her so why would she lie to me? and she also said that my bf told her straight to her face that he had sex with her. i dont know what to do i just found out that im 5 weeks pregnant with his baby and i dont know how to tell him. i need help with both things thank you!
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reader, mattie90 +, writes (5 May 2008):
mattie90 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you to who responded i talked to my bf about the situation and he told me that it didnt happen and that his bestfriends gf was trying to get with him so she was obviously jealous and i told him i was prego and ever since he wont stop talking to my stomach which is weird but cute thank you so much for advice
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reader, rachhbabes  +, writes (3 May 2008):
you need to talk to your best friend, your boyfriend, and this girl about it. get all of their points of view on the matter. i'd tell him your pregnant though, it may help him to make sure you know he's not cheating if he's not, or if he is, it may make him stop and want to make everything ok.i hope everything goes well :)x
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (3 May 2008):
 That girl is probably jelous of you and your boyfriend and wants you boyfriend, but i would talk to him about it.
Explain to him the you are pregnant etc. if he loves you as anonymous female said, he should stay with you =D
I hope this helps
good luck
Love & hugs
tasha x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): O shit! well weather he cheated or not i think the bigger problem is that ur prego. I mean yea its bad that he cheated (if he did) but all guys ALWAYS make mistakes. You need to tell him that ur prego and that u wanna make this work and see how he feels about it. If he loves u like u say he does he should stick with u but if he doesnt then theres no way in hell tnat he deservs u but thats not the point the point is i think u need to tell him ur prego pronto, and kinda let him off the hook for his mistake and then deal with the fact that ur prego with his child....im sure u guys can work this out but the first step is to TELL him about the situation then take it from there i wish u the best of luck and i hope this helps ?
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