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We're desperate for some 'alone time' to take things to the next level

Q.   Okay. To clarify- we're both legal and certain that we want to take our relationship to 'the next level', so please don't judge me -_- Basically, I live with my parents and sister, and he lives with his mom and sister. They never seem to be out o...

A.   30 September 2011: Try planning a romantic weekend(if you both have the time) or day. Spend the day at the park together or go to the movies. It is a little bit more difficult when family is around. If you time it correctly wait until you know that both families ... (read in full...)

Am I pregnant or something else?

Q.   ok so im a little freaked out but not that much. I have been spotting for a week and a half now. I am not supposed to start my period for another 6 days. i am on birth control and this has never happened before ever while on birth control. also ...

A.   19 May 2010: I took 1 of the pregnancy tests 4 days before my period started and 4 days after my period was supposed to start. There are days where ill stop spotting and then continue the next day. I want to be pregnant but im very worried that it will cause ... (read in full...)

Am I pregnant or something else?

Q.   ok so im a little freaked out but not that much. I have been spotting for a week and a half now. I am not supposed to start my period for another 6 days. i am on birth control and this has never happened before ever while on birth control. also ...

A.   18 May 2010: I have not started my period instead i am spotting. I am still having all the symptoms. Ive taken two hpts but both were negative...i will continue to take them until it comes up positive or until i bleed. I dont know what to think especially ... (read in full...)

How can I stop lying to my boyfriend and regain his trust?

Q.   I have a serious problem that is causing havoc in my relationship. I have been lying to my boyfriend about money being spent and not telling him about it, taking things like my cell phone without asking him if i can use it and taking him for ...

A.   29 September 2009: ok first off why in the world why would you have to ask to use your won cell phone thats just dumb in my book and it sounds like hes controlling you which isnt good at all. i got out of a relationship about 5 months ago because he was controlling ... (read in full...)

We just broke up and he's dating my best friend!

Q.   So, i need some help. My and my boyfriend of 6 months just broke up and now he's dating my best friend. I have to see him with her everyday since i have no other social connections. We broke up saturday while she was over at his house they started ...

A.   29 September 2009: first off thats a big no no for your friend that is so wrong. its breaking the girl code. lol. but i can tell you that if you dont let it bother you i know it sounds easy but its hard to do but dont let it seem likes it bothering you and then you ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant again?

Q.   Im pregnant for the second time and how do i tel my parents,my first baby is three years and my parents are pastors and wel knwn people they wil b ashamed of me wat must i do...

A.   29 September 2009: how did they react when you told them the first time if normal they will probabllt react the same. but if they didnt act so well the first time they might act the same way again. so just be carefull and pick the right time to tell them.... (read in full...)

It bothers me that my g/f slept with someone she didn't even know

Q.   My girlfriend slept with a lead singer from a band. It bothers me everyday that I know this. She said she did it because at the time she was mad at her old boyfriend. It just makes me so sad that she would lower herself like this to someone...

A.   29 September 2009: live by this quote "you have to except the past to change the future." seriously dude live it. most of the people that have answered this question are right. its the past she was not with you. most people have had one night stands and yes she might ... (read in full...)

Girls: Can you help give me a female perspective?

Q.   Hi i'm 18 years old and i'm a virgin the problem is that i have a slightly curved penis, its a bit curved downwards and very little to the left ,its very little curve not a big one.this makes me a bit distressed.Altough i have read many topics ...

A.   29 September 2009: dont worry about it. its perfectly normal with the whole penis thing. and about your skin color i personally dont think it matters with skin color. you cant really help who your attracted to you cant choose who you love or like its just nature so ... (read in full...)

I need help to gain confidence in my small breasts

Q.   Ok, this is kind of a stupid question. First of all, I don't live in America nor do I live in Europe. In the country I live in, men are obsessed with big breasts. They are just ideal - real or fake, they're just considered better than small ones. ...

A.   20 September 2009: hun i have small breasts too so i know where your coming from my boyfriend absolutly loves my body and i absolutly hate it. if your boyfriend doesnt like your small chest get rid of him he doesnt deserve you anyways. also another good thing is to ... (read in full...)

Do I? Don't I? ......Responding would be much apreciated :)

Q.   Ok, i need a 2nd opinion on this. Recently i have got really close with "jim" at school, and people have told me he likes me, apparently its really obvious, like the way he stared at me with my ex(we broke up recently), the way he looks at me, the...

A.   20 September 2009: guys like a chase so if you keep asking if he likes you hes not going to respond. keep him guessing not you. try this dont talk to him for a couple days, hes going to ask you if your mad. tell him no im just busy, hes going to try and keep talking ... (read in full...)

I need some tips on anal sex!

Q.   Hi Aunts. I hope no one will be offended by my question. My boyfriend and I would like to try anal sex. I like the idea and am excited about it but I am just secretly worried that there will be p** on him or that it would smell or there might be ...

A.   20 September 2009: ok this is what you should do. 1. go to a sex shop and purchase a anal lube its only used for anal and it has relaxent in it and its numbs everything, not completly though but just enough where it wont hurt as bad. 2. use a condom you can get ... (read in full...)

Me and my girlfriend fight about everything!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend fight about everthing! Sometimes it's so little and it turns in to a huge fight, we can be just sitting around and she will ask me to get her something to drink or make her a sandwich etc and if I don't do it she gets pissed ...

A.   13 November 2008: alright me and my boyfriend fight nonstop until we figured out what we should do he gave me an ultimatum he told me 2 either choose the fighting between us or to choose being with him! of course my answer was him what we also did was figure out ... (read in full...)

I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! Will I ever get over him?

Q.   We're both 18 and after nearly two years, we're over. I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! I have no idea what I'm going to do without him! I based my whole life plan on him! I was in love with him, ...

A.   28 September 2008: oh hun im so sry i went thru ths 2 i dated a guy 4 3 1/2 years he was my first love n it tore me apart n i still think abt him from time 2 time but u do get over it i promise it might take awhile but u will get ovr it i got over it within a month n ... (read in full...)

Who should I believe? My BF who says he loves me or his friend who said he's been cheating on me?

Q.   alright so i have been on here in a while so i have one huge question .... about a week ago my bf was gone for a week and he barely calld me he called me probably twice a day and when he came back thngs were fine we had a great time i made him ...

A.   9 August 2008: well he told me tht the reason y she told me this is because her bf and my bf almost got into a fight the night before she told me that he was cheating because her bf got kickd in the crotch n thn pissed on himself bc my bf smackd his hand while he ... (read in full...)

Is it over.....forever?

Q.   hi everyone so i dont know what to do about this me and my boyfriend got into a fight last nite and he started to pack his things we were talking while he was packinghis things and he put all of his stuff outside and we went for a walk and he told ...

A.   17 July 2008: im just so worried abt our relationship i dont wana lose him he told me b4 he left to text him as much as i wantd he said that hell read it all and he also said the more i text him different things abt how sry i am and other stuff that the more ... (read in full...)

Are any of these symptoms of pregancy??

Q.   I need help. Ok, so i think i might be pregnant and im trying to figure out what the hell is going on with me. I've missed my period and i've been throwing up. I haven't taken a pregnancy test yet but i was just wondering if unexplained cryi...

A.   4 July 2008: idk wht 2 do cuz me n my bf have been tryin 2 get pregnant he wants this just as bad as me n evrytime i get a missed period we get excited thn i strt bleedin is thr a reason as 2 why i cnt get pregnant is it bc of my weight i weigh 115 so im not ... (read in full...)

My nippes don't get hard!

Q.   hi ok this is super embarrassing to talk abt whn me n my bf r havin sex or whn were fooling around my nipples dnt get hard at all the only time nethng like ths happens is whn im cold i wanna kno if thrs sumthng wrong with me cuz im embarrassed by ...

A.   16 June 2008: ok also i have very small boobs theyre like 34 B n i dnt thnk im pretty or nethng is thr sumthng tht i can do 2 make thm look bigger or make them bigger without surgery plz help me im very self conscious i have no confidence plz help... (read in full...)

Missed period...no other pregnancy signs.

Q.   Hi everyone, ok so me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant since september of 07 and I was supposed to start my period on monday and ive missed my period. This is the only pregnancy symptom I have. I want to get a pregnancy test but I ...

A.   5 June 2008: well it doesnt matter now ive started... (read in full...)

More than half a year and she won't tell me how she feeels. Should I wait?

Q.   I am in need of desperate help, I've been with my girlfriend for more than half a year and she has yet to tell me how she feels, she keeps telling me she'll tell me soon and needs more time to think. She doesn't seem to talk much to me and isn't ...

A.   23 May 2008: Well my opinion would be to try and talk to her about it. Ask her if she's having any feelings towards you at all, or you could give her an ultimatum which might seem a little unfair to her. But it could work also if you're having feelings towards ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm being used, whenever I'm around my ex he wants sex!

Q.   hey me and my bf are split up now but we are still friends which i like but theres a prob... whenever we are around each other he always wants sex and i dont want to because i feel like im being use,am i?? i always so no for a while but th...

A.   23 May 2008: hi hun i think u should sit him down n tell him that we cnt keep doin this if were just guna b friends its not fair 2 u at all n if u still have feelings towards him u shouldnt b doin this either just for the simple fact tht its makin it harder for ... (read in full...)

What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said or done?

Q.   Hey everyone! I have asked before and I got some really nice responses, but I know that there is more romance out there, so I want to know, What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said to you? Or how about, what's the sweetest thing thet've ever ...

A.   13 May 2008: that when he sees me its like he falls in love all over again and that im the most beautiful girl that he has ever laid eyes on! hes also done something embarrassing but really cute we were at the mall and we got into a fight n i said u really ... (read in full...)

He wants sexy but I don't think I am...

Q.   hi everyone ok i need help from all guys. my bf wnts me 2 do something sexy for him and im not sexy one bit. im worried that he mite not like what i do. so thats what i need help on guys what do ur gfs/wives do that is sexy 4 u? i want him 2 ...

A.   11 May 2008: thank you all who responded i needed some ideas of wht 2 do but what i was thnkn of doin is a school girl outfit matchn bra n panties layer the panties n strip 4 him if he wanted 2 touch me he cant 2 make the anticipation better n also ask him 2 ... (read in full...)

I was told by a girl I hardly know that my bf has been cheating on me with my best friend. My bf says it's not true but I don't believe him, and I'm pregnant too, what shall I do??

Q.   hi everyone ok so heres the story, me and my boyfriend love each other very much but we drive each other mad. we were at the mall with his bestfriend and his gf. well me and her were hanging out while the guys did there own thing and we started ...

A.   5 May 2008: thank you to who responded i talked to my bf about the situation and he told me that it didnt happen and that his bestfriends gf was trying to get with him so she was obviously jealous and i told him i was prego and ever since he wont stop talking ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   30 April 2008: im very sorry for what had happened to you. my dad abused me when i was 12 and i went to court about it and they gave my dad parenting classes and a bunch of other stuff but what you are doing is the right thing because what happened to you might ... (read in full...)

Why can't I stay pregnant?

Q.   hi all i need help ok ive been trying to get pregnant since september of last year and ive been pregnant but miscarried and i was devastated. now i think that i cant even get pregnant because of my past medical history i had cancer when i was 7 i ...

A.   19 April 2008: i had leukemia at age 7 and the doctors told me that i have a 20% chance of not getting pregnant ... (read in full...)

My self esteem sucks any way to get it back up

Q.   hi i need all the help i can get my boyfriend tells me that im beautiful and very attractive and he cant ever take his eyes off of me but ive seen pictures of his exs and some of them are like pornstar hot and he tells me that im beautiful but ...

A.   17 April 2008: I need more responses because i think its getting worse a few days ago he told me that he was in a position that guys dont ever want to be in a relationship he told me that he was in his i want to f*** every hot girl stage because hes been with me 4 ... (read in full...)

Can anyone give me tips on making my guy scream with pleasure in bed!?

Q.   Well, another question... since I'm new in this thing called "SEX", I'm so curious, I've give my boyfriend blow jobs, normal thing I know, but the thing is that I don't feel like I'm giving him enough pleasure, when he is doing it to me I'm desperat...

A.   17 April 2008: ok you want my opinion well its not an opinion its something that my boyfriend loves when i give him head he likes it when i twist my hand up and down tight not to tight but tight enough to where it doesnt hurt him and also while his penis is in ... (read in full...)

Should I make a move on this girl who invites me to watch movies at her house?

Q.   Occasionally, a girl I know will call me to watch a movie at her house. I'm not really sure what her intentions are. Also, I'm not sure if she wants me to make a move on her or not. It seems like she might like me but she doesn't really sit very ...

A.   17 April 2008: so how long has this been going on for because if its been happening for awhile then you need to make a move if she still invites you over maybe thats why she keeps on inviting you over is to make a move so the next time she asks you to come over ... (read in full...)

How do I show him how much I want him back in my life without looking desperate?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend broke up over six months back, we have stayed in contact and have met up a couple of times since and got on really well. He has now moved away to do a course for a year. I think this is the main reason why he broke up with me ...

A.   12 April 2008: there are somethings you can do without looking desperate tell him that you feel very strong about your feelings and ask him how he feels about the situation between you two if he says we should just keep in contact once in awhile i would just take ... (read in full...)

What is the true meaning of love?

Q.   What is love? \\...

A.   12 April 2008: there is no real defintion to love but whatever you feel inside toward someone could be love but if you have been with someone for a few months those feelings will grow and continue to grow love to me is when u cant picture waking up to anyone else ... (read in full...)

I wont know 'til tomorrow for sure, but do you guys think I'm pregnant?

Q.   I think I may be pregnant, but I'm not sure. I am now 3 weeks late. I didn't get my period for march! however I have taken 5 at home pregnancy test and they were all negative the last one was today. I then went to one of the clinics here and got a ...

A.   12 April 2008: hi first off you did the right thing by getting a pregnancy test im going through the same thing i was a week late and i started bleeding but it was very light and thats not normal for me and i think that i could be pregnant but bleeding if you are ... (read in full...)

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