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writes:Okay this is like the typical issue with teenage girls.. only it usually happens in like middle school.. but im 16 and me and my two other friends all think this guy is extremely gorgeous.. and hes got a sweet personality too.. so we all decided not to flirt with him/ make any moves cause we all like him... which works when i say it.. but everytime i see him it's like butterflies.. and i dont know how to hide that :-( I don't want my friends to get mad at me... but i really like this guy.. I'm not sure if he likes me, so i don't want to just go ahead and make a move and risk not getting him as well as upsetting my friends to the max. So if you have any advice on what to do? I know I should just not bother but I can't help thinking about it... I guess that's why they call it a crush eh?
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reader, Keria  +, writes (26 April 2007):
I don't understand why your friends would be jealous. Let me see, ALL of you want him, and that means that NONE of you should have him. Hmm.. I say go for it, and may the best woman win!
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (26 April 2007):
 I think you should take the bull by the horns and go for it, we only get one shot at life, so why waste it thinking what might have been. You friends may have the hump for a while but they will get over it.
Good luck x
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reader, mitch +, writes (26 April 2007):
Hard one... Guess you could go for it, perhaps not full out, but just try talking to him and see how it goes - that isn't flirting so it won't hurt your friends.
But while you've got to give these things ago, as you'd be annoying your friends because of what you agreed, you could end with neither.
best to leave things go for a bit and see what happens...
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reader, XXpussycatXX +, writes (26 April 2007):
well thinking about it and doing it is 2 different things...you need to ask yourself these questions
is a silly crush that may not go anywhere worth upsetting and maybe losing them worth it
o just maybe talk to them and see if they say go ahead dont just go for it because your friends wont be happy
it is a tricky situation but as the saying goes there plenty more fish in the sea and there be more guys that you will just like and not your friends at the same time lol
good luck
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