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writes:Dear Agony Aunt, I am so stressed and confused I don't know what to do the problem is I've fallen in love with someone who unfortunately is my third cousin who is also 6 years older than me and lives abroad. I really love him I am so mad about him the thing is when I went on holiday I never actually spoke to him because I was so shy and neither did he but now that I've got his mobile number we talk regularly by text only, he sends me love poems and sometimes friendship poems but that's the thing I can't understand whether he loves me or likes me? I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm scared that he will tell his mum which would create awkwardness between both our families. I've also heard that he likes 4 other girls but I don't know whether he loves them or actually has strong feelings for them. When I went over to his country which was 2 years ago to visit relatives, he was really shy around me and an incident occurred when I was getting changed to go out and he caught me half-naked shall I say and he accidently walked in and smiled. I know I shouldn't take that matter to heart but I thought it meant something. Please help, I want to know whether you think he has strong feelings about me or is just messing me around?
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reader, ...cat...  +, writes (17 August 2007):
i think u mite just have a crush on each other, u can only kno by asking him!! personally i wouldnt!! that would b opening up a whole can of worms, since your related and hes a good bit older than u and lives abroad!!i kno crushes r hard and u often feel lovesick, but ur in ur early teens!! u shud b going out with loads of boys, breaking up, finding news ones, just having a laugh really!! dont get 2 serious with just one guy, have loads of fun and loads of boyfriends!! hope it all works out 4ya hun xxx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Very hard to say. Apparently he does have an interest. Also, I don't think he caught you half-naked just by accident; maybe, but I doubt it. Maybe he sends you love poems, and then friendship poems, because he isn't sure how you would take his advances.
But, since he likes four other girls, maybe he is just messing around.
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