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Everyone thinks i'm ugly.

Q.   This has been making me feel depressed for a long time. EVERYWHERE I go i hear people call me ugly even at school too. I hear it almost everyday. No one even notices me or even look at me. My sister, and parents think i'm not that pretty either. ...

A.   19 August 2007: i think because ppl comment on d way you look its jealousy, they must see something i u that they dont have themselves & think theyl never will have!!! it mayb a great personality or sense of humour!! sum ppl just have an air about them, sumthing ... (read in full...)

Is giving a man oral a bad thing?

Q.   Is giving blowjobs a bad thing? I've heard half and half but I really want to know so I won't do something I will regret....

A.   18 August 2007: blowjobs arnt a bad thing!!! but it says ur between 13-15, thats kind of young 2b getting in2 that kind of thing!! if u decide u do want 2 give ur boyfriend 1, make sure u trust him!!! teenage boys tend 2 brag about that kind of thing & u mite get... (read in full...)

He still wants to be friends, but I want more

Q.   i was with my boyfriend for 6 weeks. we were madly in love. i thought he was the one. i still do. he was kind of off with me for a few days. then he said he thought he was ready for a relationship, but he wasn't. he said he has too much baggage from ...

A.   18 August 2007: thanks for d advice!!! im going 2 stay friends with him, but only friends!! hes not getting any perks out of it!! im going 2 move on, just accept that wer in different places at d moment. sumday he mite b ready and i mite feel d same, but im not ... (read in full...)

I want to know whether you think he has strong feelings about me or is just messing me around?

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, I am so stressed and confused I don't know what to do the problem is I've fallen in love with someone who unfortunately is my third cousin who is also 6 years older than me and lives abroad. I really love him I am so mad about him ...

A.   17 August 2007: i think u mite just have a crush on each other, u can only kno by asking him!! personally i wouldnt!! that would b opening up a whole can of worms, since your related and hes a good bit older than u and lives abroad!! i kno crushes r hard a... (read in full...)

Should I continue emailing the guy that I kissed on holiday?

Q.   i am 18 and recently went on holiday to greece with my friends. i met a really nice man he is 27 and he likes all the same things as me and we got on really well.we were together for the last three days of the holiday and kissed.we swapped e mail ...

A.   17 August 2007: id probably meet up with him!! i dont see any harm in it once your safe, by safe i mean u tell ppl where your going, who with and wat time ul b home at!! cuz even tho uv been emailing him and wer with him for 3 days u dont really kno him yet!! u ... (read in full...)

What does his lack of contact, on holiday mean?

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 months went on holday for 2 weeks and text me only four times,only in response to the texts i sent him!! he hasnt even called me! what does this mean! ...

A.   17 August 2007: i wouldnt worry about it 2 much!! men genrally arn't very good at keeping in touch!! he probably didnt even realise he wasnt contacting u as much as he should!! tell him how it made u feel and see how he reacts, if he apoligises and is really sw... (read in full...)

He never wants to kiss me and it's making me feel unloved!

Q.   Ive been with my bf for almost 8 months now and things are going well apart from a few little things. He never seems to kiss me when we are out (im not wanting a full on snog im asking for a peck on the cheek). I kiss him and hes fine with it but he ...

A.   17 August 2007: hay i agree!!! you should talk 2 him bout it and tell him how it makes u feel... if its a case that hes just not a touchy-feely person in public he should make an effort for you in private!! if he still doesnt get cuddley with you mayb you should... (read in full...)

Should I be upset that my friendship ended because of my sneaky man?

Q.   Please help before I do something I may regret. My fiance refused to let me talk to one of my closest friends because of some terrible things she did, and I of course told her to stop multiple times, but she "kept doing it." So finally, I stopped ...

A.   17 August 2007: well id b extremely upset if someone basically ordered me to stop talking to a friend and then was fine with them and talking to them behind my back!! especially if i was sad about losing their friendship!! i also be pretty annoyed that hes was talk... (read in full...)

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