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I want to go back on the dating site, but my ex is there. Please help.

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Question - (11 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

What do you think? would it be weird if I did this? ? ?

My ex boyfriend and I met on a dating site, we dated for a long time, he told me he loved me everyday and I loved him a lot. But he lied to me, cheated and dumped me.. He really hurt me..

Am ready to move on and I wanna start dating, I want to go back on the dating site where we met to see if I can find a nice guy this time, but my ex is on the dating site, do you think it will be weird?

He has moved on and is about time I did too.

What do you think? Please help?

Thanks..x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011):

sweetie . iwent through this . my ex is on the same dating site .and he trearted me like crap and lied and had alot of women . and it took my over a week to get over it . i would wait until you dont think of him as much and let some time to heal . in the mean time go on another site for a while go on another site for a while . or slowly go back on, it cann be strange at firs t i know were your coming from . i still sometimes feel that way . but each day it get sbetter

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011):

its called an EX for a reason

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (12 April 2011):

person12345 agony auntWhy would that be weird? He can't think you're weird when he's doing the same thing. And if he does, then he's a hypocrite on top of being a lying, cheating, jerk. You shouldn't care what he thinks or let his opinion influence your actions.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (11 April 2011):

The Realist agony auntI don't see why it would be weird. Chances are he doesn't check the site if he is with anyone else and if he is still on it then there is no reason you have to communicate with him if he tries.

Get back out there how ever you want to. There is no reason he should hold you back.

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