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I want to be with him but others will judge me!

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Question - (2 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hi, Okay so there's this guy and we were going to start seeing eachother, but then he drunkenly announced that he had a gf after 2 weeks of me going out of contact because i had no internet, or credit, so i got really annoyed and told him i hated him, then my cousin came down to stay and he told her he liked her, but she told him she wasnt interested, then 2 months later, i got a long 3 paragraugh email saying how he loved me and has done since we were little, but the thing is now everybody knows how much he's hurt me, and i may sound so stupid here but i still like him alot!

i've liked him since i wos 5, when i first met him.. but i don't knw if i can trust him, and i want to so badly, and my sister is living in there house for the week looking after there dogs and i went round there and stayed in his room cos all the others had locks on and my sis was in the other one, i wrote him a letter and left it in his money box, i then text him and told him to read it, it basically just explains my feelings, he's coming round my house on saturday, and i so badly want to get together then, like not just get with him i mean in a relationship, but people will judge me, but he makes me really happy. what do i do.??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010):

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Okay, he did mean another girl, but apparently he asked her out by text when he was drunk, and he does make me happy when i'm with him, because he's really sweet, and he dumped the gf the day after. tbh he may sound like that (WHEN HE'S DRUNK) but i've known him since i wos 3 years old, and since i was about 10 i've liked him alot.

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntI don't think your friends are gonna judge you. I think they're gonna worry about you getting let down. When he told people he had a girlfriend, did he mean you or someone else? You didn't make that clear.

However, as far as strangers go, you shouldn't care what other people think because it's your free will.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (2 June 2010):

YouWish agony auntThis guy sounds like BAD news. How can he make you happy?? He sounds like a flaky sort of guy. You can't trust him, and what happened to this GF he says he got??

Sounds like it's Drama City, and this guy's the mayor.

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