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writes:Hi,I know this sounds silly but I could use some advice on it. I'm 16 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now. I lost my virginity to him, he wasn't a virgin, this past October. Now the problem is that we never get the opportunity to do it again. We haven't since then and we both live at home with our families. I feel like I haven't gotten the opportunity to enjoy sex or know what it really feels like when it's good because a first time isn't all that great, right? Any suggestions for how we can have better opportunities to have sex or how we can make the sex better?
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 In the US you should be able to rent a motel room for around $50. That isn't a huge amount of money if you sacrifice the occasional trip to the mall. Remember that you have that room from early afternoon one day til nearly mid-day the next. That is plenty of time to have lots of sex.
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reader, shnookims  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Agreeing with previous 2 answers... I know your parents are probably always telling you this but trust me, when you have kids of your own you will understand. You won't want your 16year old daughter having sex.
No one can prevent you from doing the deed if you want to but unless you can make a plan to be able to afford a motel or something, you're not going to get too many opportunities.
If you do end up getting the opportunities no one can tell you how to make sex better... Different people like different things and learning what works for you and your partner will not only bring you closer, but will make the sex really enjoyable.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 I really like Aunty Bim's answer.
I presume that both parents' think "not under my roof." Which I would say to my 16 y/o daughter. So, ain't gonna happen at home. If you're earning enough money go rent a motel room, go for it. Otherwise, wait 'til you're grown up enough to have a home for yourselves.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Sure, if you want an adults right to drop your drawers and have sex whenever you want you need to act like an adult.
Start supporting yourself, leave home, get your own place and you will be able to have sex at will.
Otherwise, accept that you are a younger member of a family, that the freedom to have sex at will is not yours, and wait a few years until you grow up a tad.
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