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writes:Sorry this my be a bit long but i really need peoples opinions.I went out with a guy a year and a bit ago,and was completly in love...i lost my virginity to him, anyway a week after he dumped me and went back to his ex girlfriend..i never spoke or saw him again so was have never really got over him.About 2 weeks ago now, i got an email from him asking how i was ect and saying he owed me an apology. we have been emailing and txting eachother other this time because i couldnt bring myself to call him.Anyway all my old feelings are back, also when we talk were quite flirty with each other. and yesterday we were arranging to meet, so i was quite open and asked what he wanted out of this...whether to be friends or more..Well i got an email of confessions this morning, starting with a massive apology. Then he went on to say that he has a girlfriend and she is 7 months pregnant with his child, but he said there relationship is bad atm.He said he really likes me, but we should just be friends for now and see what happens.I was so shocked by this...i dont know what to do because if he has a girlfriend and is starting a family i dont want to come between them, but at the same time i do really like him.Please help any advice is useful xx
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Do yourself a massive favour... save yourself and get away from this boy. He is using you. He has gotten another girl pregnant and now he wants to bring you back in on the situation?...is this really the kind of guy you want in your life??? Whats he going to do about the other girl?, hide her and the baby under the rug and carry on with you???. Ask yourself if you REALLY want to be that girl??
Wouldn't you rather give yourself a little more time to grow up, meet a nice guy exclusively for you who loves and respects you for being a smart cookie who can look back on this other bozo and say to yourself ' I am so glad I stepped away'
HE DUMPED YOU!!!! a week after having sex with you and ran off and got someone pregnant, now he's Mr LOSER and most girls wouldn't give him a second look, so hes come running back to you to stroke his ego and make him feel good about hiself...UH OH!!!
Open your eyes and see it for what it really is. People do dress it up with sweet words and he sure made sure he had you back on the hook before he confessed what was REALLY going on...what a toad!!!!
Darling save your beautiful self
You can AND WILL do so much better, when the time is right for you.
Don't make me come up there and kick your butt. hehe!!
Good luck
Aunty Em xxx
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