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I thought he wanted to be with me. in what way did I misread the signals he gave me?

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Question - (14 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *olalayla writes:

i was at a party last night at a school that was a 20 dollar cab ride away from my school.

this guy who asked me to dance. We danced for a while and ended up making out on the dance floor. then when the party was clearing up he asked me to go home with him.

I told him that I had to find my friends. He watched as I told them goodbye. Then we walked to his dorm, made out for about a minute and he told me that he was too drunk to have sex with me and that I would have to leave.

I was very confused, why did he invite me back, and stand by and watch while my friends left if he did't want to be with me?

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (14 February 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt I guess you can take what he said at face value. He wanted to, but when the time came he realized he was just too drunk to perform. And maybe he did not want to risk feeling sick in front of you ....or over you. It sounds like a good reason to me.

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A female reader, ellie1963 United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2011):

ellie1963 agony auntyou should never have sex on a first date and this was even before the first date. Boys will think of you as easy they need something tha is a bit challenging and any one who is worth giving your self to is worth knowing first!To have sex with some one that you really love and loves you is a much more forfilling experiance then just 'ill have sex with you and then you may like me more' experiance. Wait a bit next time let him woo you and see how you feel about the net guy.

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