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Falling in love with my step brother...what do I do?

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Question - (14 February 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2011)
A female United States age 16-17, anonymous writes:

ok my dad just remaried and i have a new stepbrother im 13 and hes 15 we still live in a 3 bedroom appartment and when my dad has me and my brother his new wife has her sons one is 11 and my bro is 11 but my new stepbrother who is 15 is realy sweet all three boys share a room.

i have my own room. well one day affter school it was just the two of us i went to my room as usual and he went to his mabey 20 min later he comes in wearing only his boxers in my house its not that unusual. all the boys r football players and i row for a crew team so were all in excelent shape so he tells me he doesnt like being alone so im like ok and tell him he can lay in my room so he lays next to me im doing my hw and hes doing his when i feel his hand stroke my arm i ignore it next i feel his lips on my neck now things start to happen he starts kissing me and stupid me kisses back cuz i had broken up with my bf earlyer that week so i let him and within 10min i was down tomy braw and underwear when i toldhim to stop he did but he held me tight to him when i started to cry he asked why i was crying and i told him cause it felt like he realy loved me he laughed and said he realy did.

weve been sneeking around for the last couple months and i let him lay in bed with me at night. we dontknow if or how we should tell out parents were scared he keeps telling me he wants to marry me and he wants me to hold on to my viginity and not make the same mistake of loosing it to early like he did

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011):

you should try your best to break it off i know it must be hard for you but if you do free like he's the one and its ment to be chances are your dad and step mom or vise versa will end up spliting up follow your heart but still at the same time your head. decide whcih is best and good luck with everything

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A female reader, animegirl Malta +, writes (23 February 2011):

hi first of all you people are all jerks second im a teen too and im 15 so i can understand this better and you people are saying that the fathers relationship came first yeah but was he even concerned that his children could be hurt seeing him marry another woman so why should you be concerned for your father? if he wasnt concerned for you? im not saying he doesnt love you on the contrary but youre not being selfish not a little bit my parents are divorced so thats why im saying this i got really hurt when they did revolving your stepbrother dont fall for him that easy he could be lying to you by saying i love you im not saying he doesnt im saying keep caution for guys have a tend to lie,use and throw a girl away thats why im saying you have to fall harder for him cause if he really loves you he'll do anything for you and if youre that close you can even have a relationship and marry yes why not

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011):

hi first of all you people are all jerks second im a teen too and im 15 so i can understand this better and you people are saying that the fathers relationship came first yeah but was he even concerned that his children could be hurt seeing him marry another woman so why should you be concerned for your father? if he wasnt concerned for you? im not saying he doesnt love you on the contrary but youre not being selfish not a little bit my parents are divorced so thats why im saying this i got really hurt when they did revolving your stepbrother dont fall for him that easy he could be lying to you by saying i love you im not saying he doesnt im saying keep caution for guys have a tend to lie,use and throw a girl away thats why im saying you have to fall harder for him cause if he really loves you he'll do anything for you and if youre that close you can even have a relationship and marry yes why not

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011):

This is just mean on your parents ,as it's not like you met the family at the same time as your mother and both fell in love, it is you being made a daughter of your mother's new husband and you not being able to resist the hormonal advances of a horny male teenager. Seriously, stop letting him sleep in your bed, it's just weird anyway.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011):

Think if your b/f does the same thing with his sister how will you feel, so stop being selfish and respect brotherhood relationship and if he doing with your sister how will you tolerate will it be common? so think before doing such things avoid him from your bed or even from your room.

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A female reader, JDinCali United States +, writes (14 February 2011):

JDinCali agony auntYou need to respect your parents and stop messing around. Their relationship came first. You all are family, stop being selfish with your teenage hormones and think about the big picture. There are a lot of guys in the world, there's no need to cause drama in your family's life by messing around w/ your brother.

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