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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i met this girl last year at college we are only friends. i had a crush on her around this time last year. were not talk all the time go out all the time friends in fact i've only seen her outside college twice at two of her parties. we talk every few days on facebook or by text. she has recentley broke up with her boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. i like her as a friend and i do think she is cute but really our friendship isn't the best so i would like to take her out not even in a date way just as friends. she is pretty shy and i was when i first met but she doesn't know that i've gained more confidence and what have you.i know her best friend and i would like to ask her what our friend thinks of me because i do i think i like her but i just don't want her to get all awkward with me.what should i do? also if i should take her out what would be the best places to go? p.s i have never had a girlfriend
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 December 2011):
 OK first of, don't involve her friend in this at all. This is child play and am sure she will not appreciate it. Yes I understand that you are eager to find out if this girl likes you or not, but going to her friend to ask is the wrong way about it. This is between you and her, not her friend. This is something you would do as a young teenager.
OK so you like her that much is clear, nobody knows if she likes you back or not. But you want to be closer friends to start off with, which is the best way to move forward. So without putting any pressure on her or asking her to date you, just simply ask her when you are talking to her if she is free a night at the weekend. Just say to her that it would be nice if you could take her on a night out and catch up with her as friends. See what she says. You could take her to somewhere that you like to go to where there is good music and you can both have a laugh.
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