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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay, so, I am in a relationship with a womderful guy. He's 18, I'm 17. We've been together for almost a year and our relationship is great except this one little thing...I have a best friend who is a guy. He's a really cool dude but we are completely plutonic. Yes, at one point he had a crush on me, but we're past that now. Yesterday I was skyping with my friend amd my boyfriend messages me saying he thinks I have feelings for my friend. I said no, I don't that's silly. It just spiraled into us talking aboit earlier in our relationship when his female friend was actively flirting and trying to get his attention and it made me feel uncomfortable. I told him I don't care if you two are friends, but it does make me umcomfortable so he stopped talking tl her as much. Now I feel like he wants me to do the same with my friend amd I'm okay with this, nut je just kind of left in a hurry barely saying goodbye. I told him I loved him and he just logged off. Then I saw him liking his ex girlfriend's status and stuff and I feel like he's trying to spite me. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlright, to clarify, I did not choose the title for this and my main focus wasn't meant to be on him liking his ex's status. My main focus was supposed to be whether or not his jealousy is justified.
Aunt honesty, I do trust him. It was that specific girl I didn't trust and I feel like he feels the same way about my friend. Thanks for replyimg though, by the way.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 July 2012):
 Well it is okay for you to have a male friend so it should be okay for him to have a female friend. Trust is important in a relationship therefore you both need to be able to trust each other or else there is no point to the relationship.
Maybe he just liked what his ex girlfriend had to say, I think you are reading to much in to it. As long as you are both communicating then things should be okay.
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