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writes:Hi, its been a while since ive been here but, i am stuck on an issue that might have different and better aproaches. I dated my gf for almost 3 years we broke up like 2 months ago things werent going to great.. But i still love her,, now i met this new girl and we were talking for 2 weeks and i really started to like her and all but recently shes saying shes busy with school/work and life.. I really like her im a bit older than her she thinks im mature but she thinks im taking it too fast, we had 1 date but in honest truth im just 24/7 thinking about her and yesterday we were texting and she was telling me we could stay friend and see what happens.,, but now she hasnt answered 3 texts and 2 calls. i left her a voicemail and asked her to let me know if we still would see each other tommorrow,, I Really like her i feel like she likes me but she has 2nd thoughts.. what should i do ? Should i wait a bit longer or Text her ? my mind is just constantly thinking about her... From the moment i saw her i knew i would like her alot. Please help me 3
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reader, N3m0 +, writes (1 December 2011):
N3m0 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYEha thanks guys . I stopped texting her and calling her since that day. Im not clingy this is the first time i felt that about a girl. Ill just give her time and maybe one day we can meet up in fb or something but for now ill just give her her space :P Thank you guys very much great advice 3
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 Hi,
I am surprise how fast you've moved on from your ex-girlfriend? I am confused, you still love your ex-girlfriend, yet you are thinking about this new girl 24/7 after 1 date? Good for you...
After only 1 date, she told you she feels this is moving too fast. I think you are making her uncomfortable, and pressuring her. If you really like this girl, and want to continue pursuing her, you should wait few days to contact her again. You already told her you want to meet her again, she knows, so all you can do now is wait. But, now you have to consider the fact that you might have scare her off? It could be a possibility?
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2011): I suggest you wait. She has told she wants to only be friends with you, and that she feels your moving too fast for her. The more you continually text and call leaving messages, the more you are going to push her away. You like her a lot, but she doedn't like you that much, and from a woman who knows, the more a man pushes when he likes me and I have made it clear that it's going to fast for me, the more I feel pressured by him and more his actions pushes me away until eventually I don't even want to be friends with him. The best way to get a woman (or any person) is to respect their decision no matter how much it hurts, and refrain from messaging and calling all the time. The man who will respect what I say is that man who will get me to be his eventually, that is what my current boyfriend did and it makes me love him even more because he cares about me enough to put my feelings before his, and I have done the same for him. Good Luck
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (18 November 2011):
 You messed up... Dude you took it way too fast falling in love and all that. Im sue this girl is gorgeous and beautiful and the sun rises when she opens her eyes and your world revolves around her.
Young pretty girls have millions of options there's a dozen guys on every corner trying to talk to them... If your the one they like the most your in there like swim wear and there's really nothing you can do to determine that, Just like you dont like every chick you meet. there's some you are more into then others.
You seem desperate clingy and trying to tie this girl down she doesn't want that shes young and wants to get out there and keep her options open. More then likely there's another man on the scene.
Dude back off if shes interested shell let you know it sux when females play games that's why you shouldn't let your emotions get to involved. get out there and start talking to some other females you should always have a plan B
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