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I was a player in the past, I've cheated on my girl twice and just don't know if we should be together

Q.   Hi please refer to me as N3m0. I need help in a couple of areas in my relationship. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I need help figuring out wether i love her as much as when i first started going out with her. I had a girlfriend ...

A.   18 May 2012: Hey guys so now im back, much of my situation changed..... we had about 4 years of being together and now i am so heart broken because i ended up breaking up with her for a few dayss only to persue the attention of other girls but i realized that i ... (read in full...)

Is she going to regret that she ended things with me and moved on?

Q.   I guesse a brief introduction will help you understand how commited I was to this girl... I had many opportunities with girls before and even during my relationship. I turned them all down straight away, as I felt that i wanted someone special ...

A.   18 May 2012: I know its hard aim going through something a bit similar, i cant not stop thinking about my ex, Reply if you need someone to talk to, I would like to know how you are doing now? ... (read in full...)

I really like this girl but looks like she has second thoughts about me. What should I do ?

Q.   Hi, its been a while since ive been here but, i am stuck on an issue that might have different and better aproaches. I dated my gf for almost 3 years we broke up like 2 months ago things werent going to great.. But i still love her,, now i met this ...

A.   1 December 2011: YEha thanks guys . I stopped texting her and calling her since that day. Im not clingy this is the first time i felt that about a girl. Ill just give her time and maybe one day we can meet up in fb or something but for now ill just give her her ... (read in full...)

Dating for 4 months and no idea what to get my guy for V-Day

Q.   Hi everyone, Valentines day is just 2 days away, and I have absolutely have NO idea what to get my boyfriend. We are both 15, and we have been dating for 4 months. The thing is, he doesn't really like anything in particular. He isn't into video...

A.   13 February 2011: have you tried shoes, if theyre affordable. Why not take him out to eat, instead?. I really dont know anything else since i liked video games and jewelry. lol. Good luck. =)... (read in full...)

Dating for 4 months and no idea what to get my guy for V-Day

Q.   Hi everyone, Valentines day is just 2 days away, and I have absolutely have NO idea what to get my boyfriend. We are both 15, and we have been dating for 4 months. The thing is, he doesn't really like anything in particular. He isn't into video...

A.   13 February 2011: have you tried shoes, if theyre affordable. Why not take him out to eat, instead?. I really dont know anything else since i liked video games and jewelry. lol. Good luck. =)... (read in full...)

How do I get older women to notice me?

Q.   what is the best way for older females to notice me? im 19 i like females from 25 and up to 45. people help me out. im not ugly or anythin i look good . i mean alot of women my age want to go out with me. but ilike older women. any advice well be ...

A.   4 October 2010: Hey well the thing is that i am mature. ive talked to women at that age and they usually think im 23 or 22 but wehn i tell them im 19 they kind of back off and they talk a little less and they dont open themselves up to me as much. I talked a woman ... (read in full...)

Am I big enough to break my girlfriend's virginity?

Q.   I'm planning on having sex with my virging g.f next week... we hve both agreed on that... the problem is that my penis measure 15-16cm long, will it be able to break my g.f virginity??? I don't want to end up the looser at the end... ...

A.   1 October 2010: dude you dont need to be that big to take a virginity, as yes be safe also make her enjoy it and always ask her if shes ok with it and if the way youre doing if its ok.. the last thing you want it her uncomfortable. make sure she enjoy everythin ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriends boss coming onto him, or just friendly?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating a year now and my boyfriend got another job after being laid off a month ago. This is a small ice cream parlor job, so everyone working there is a three to five years younger than him. During the slow times at the ...

A.   1 October 2010: i do very much believe shes coming onto him, i was like that with my manager but she was 5 years older and had kids. nothin came out of it. but be careful sounds like maybe your boyfriend might be flirting back becasue i had a girlfriend and i ... (read in full...)

For the guys, do you prefer skinny or thick?

Q.   This is a question for guys only:) does weight matter when your in a relashion? do you guys prefer a skiny gf or thick...

A.   1 October 2010: hmm i guess depends on some things I dont want to offend anyone. Many guys who are desperate to get a GF, usually get whoever they can, more confidnet guys go for their choice, but i guess also weight does count, depending what they look for in a gi... (read in full...)

How can I stop getting so angry all the time??

Q.   Hi veeryone. I'm 13 and want to know why I am so angry. I haven't had a good life at all and my mom said she fears I will run away or something. But the littlest things get me angry and it is very sudden. I don't want to Hurt myself, but I want to ...

A.   1 October 2010: Lol you sound like me. but im like that at age 19.alot of things bother me, like stupid people doing stupid things. What i try to do is just get away from all that. usually when i get mad i get loud, so the best thig for me if i just leave and go ... (read in full...)

Men only question, would you be interested in a woman like me??

Q.   For men only! I have 34c breasts. I weigh 165 am 5' 10" dirty blonde hair. I am shy. My eyes are brownish green. By what I told u would u be interested in me?...

A.   1 October 2010: well you sound hot, but true personality is very important. if youre having a difficult time find. Dont look theyll come to you. But yes please give more details. ... (read in full...)

What to do with my life?

Q.   Ok, so its not really a question about relationships or anything but here's the deal. I've been really depressed lately thinking about my future. I'm 17 years old, have a good paying job that I work 9 hours every day at, I'm graduated from high ...

A.   1 October 2010: hey bro well im 19.i guess i had the same issue at that age but for me i only had a job. lol It seems youre a hard worker and you've dont great so far. i mean i dont want you to think that im acting like a full grown adult, But Maybe you should go ... (read in full...)

Is it fair to eject people from your life who don't mind their own business?

Q.   I know that no-one's perfect, but I have lost a lot of friends lately because I can't stand people who stick their nose in my business. They try to manipulate me. Is it fair to eject people from your life who can't mind their own business? I kn...

A.   29 September 2010: i say eject anyone you want. really its your life . unless they contribute to your health or your money, they reall y arent neccesary. you are the only one who knows what you want. Do what best fits you and run your life the way you want to. I had ... (read in full...)

How do I play the player?

Q.   How do you get a guy back for playing games with you for months and leading you on... and then he all of a sudden stops seeing you and talking to you?... I want to get him back because I see him out all the time and i deleted him from my phone... ...

A.   29 September 2010: nahh many people here are wrong. i used/am/ (lol) ok well first of all if it just happened ignore him dont pay any attention, if he liked you alot, he'll eventually call. then you know give him a chance .. arrange a date a.s.a.p and when you go to ... (read in full...)

My mom won't let me take this test!

Q.   this really isnt a relationship question but i really need help ok im in 8th grade but i take geomerty i've been given the chance to take a PSAT test with 34 other student in my school for free i told my mom cause all i need is a parent permission ...

A.   29 September 2010: sorry to say . but your mother is holding you back. i hate it . my dad is like the same way.. Like they hold a gurdge against us. really annoyin and not a positive thing at all ! Ugh! good luck hope it works out.... (read in full...)

Older men like me, but Freshmen are repelled by me! What is wrong with me?

Q.   Help! Okay, so i am fourteen, almost fifteen years old. I've never had a boy my age ask me out, ever. I seem to be attracting the older guys. I'm friends with a lot of people, from age 12 to 25, and most of the guys who like me are in their 18-20's. ...

A.   29 September 2010: I just think that the older guys liking younger women liek in your case if just Perverted. Usually it means they just want sex because your younger its easier to impress you or just easier to trick you with words( no offense). Just dont do anythin ... (read in full...)

Should I go out with him as my boyfriend is away?

Q.   Hello Well my boyfriend has gone away and since he has gone this guy keeps flirting with me and he just asked me out and im kind of falling for him, hes so sweet and funny and good looking but i love my boyfriend and i am so confused Please help me!...

A.   29 September 2010: nooooooooooooooooooo dont do it ... if you do it break p with your bf.. i would be devistated honeslty. but if you cheat you might get away with it.. not good tho. ALSO depends if the other guy knows you have a bf. i think best idea is if you want ... (read in full...)

Flirting advice please???

Q.   hey i need some flirting advice. a good friend of mine, i think, was flirting with me yesterday. we were talking a lot, and he was asking me to rub his back because it was sore, and to feel his feet because his calises have gone (we both do aiki...

A.   29 September 2010: hi =) well im 19 and i guess i could say im a proffesional at flirting, not to sound cocky.. but it sounds like flirting. kind of hard to tell but mayeb i can help more if you give more info on other clues you might he he does. But for me when i ... (read in full...)

Is this boy normal, and should he date my daughter?

Q.   I am worried about my daughters new relatonship. My daughter is 17, she is a great kid , we are very lucky that we have never really had any trouble with her. Normally I don"t judge the people she chooses to date but I am a little concerned with her ...

A.   29 September 2010: sounds like me when i first met my girlfriends parents. i also had a past.. like i was in a gang at 13 and also i had many fights i sold some drugs. But all in all i just had a bad childhood. Her parents kept and eye on me which i thougth normal ... (read in full...)

Embarrassed by my new boyfriend...

Q.   I've been dating a guy for two weeks now, he's smart, cute, funny, sensitive and romantic, but there are two disadvantages: he's still in high school, but graduates this year and he's only three months younger than me, but he's still 18 (so he ...

A.   29 September 2010: Lol. ok well from my previous experiencesi believe that it could either be.. money problems or just his own way of dressing. i mean when i was 13-16 i dressed like a gangster, then i turned 17 and i started to work and then i bought Hollister since ... (read in full...)

I feel like such a loser!

Q.   I feel like the biggest loser in the world. I'm 18, have recently started univeristy and I feel completely alone. Everyone around me in my old town seemed to be in a relationship, and here at University everyone seems so confident when talking ...

A.   29 September 2010: hey man, dont worry i had started when i was 14, but either way, in the end youll end up having sex. if its not at 18 itll be 19 and 20 and so on. theres always hope and the best way to increase your chances is to get out there and make friends, ... (read in full...)

Kids having sex!

Q.   OK lately I see a lot of questions here where children from the age of 14-16,17 years think that they are old enough to have sex. They don't understand anything about it. They think that they are ready. There are even parents who agree with the idea ...

A.   28 September 2010: i agree the same with sammi. There are many 15/16/17 yr olds that are immature and have sex and yet they dont uderstand the consequences, but also there are many of the same age who can be more mature than any 19 or or even 22 yr old. so i mean im ... (read in full...)

What is this? I don't know if he likes me or just wants a FWB.

Q.   This past summer I started talking to a guy at my college. He didn't intially say he liked me when we first meet but I knew he did. Prior to us talking he would text me all day asking me questions about myself and vice versa. So he finally asked me ...

A.   28 September 2010: hey well, from the sound of it. sounds like everythin went a lil too far from the beggining and probably you left a thought on his mind that, he can get it anytime he wants. I really cant tell you wether this what he's thinking but after having *** ... (read in full...)

I was a player in the past, I've cheated on my girl twice and just don't know if we should be together

Q.   Hi please refer to me as N3m0. I need help in a couple of areas in my relationship. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I need help figuring out wether i love her as much as when i first started going out with her. I had a girlfriend ...

A.   10 August 2010: Thank you for everything guys. Talking to her probably wouldn't be the best ideas. Also as some of the answers said. My old ways arew coming back. Its like I don't intend on cheating on her but then there are moments where I'm a a friends house and ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex to lose virginity even though I don't think it will be as special to him as it is to me?

Q.   I have been with my partner for three years and so far we only engage in oral sex. I havent been ready to go forward with full sex and he has been very understanding about this. However, now I am getting tired of being a virgin as I am 25 and its ...

A.   5 August 2010: i hope this can help at least a little bit. i could put myself in the guys position. because i had the past as him except for this child part. also as you say he does respect you and is kind. But also dont rush yourself. Do it when you feel ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex to lose virginity even though I don't think it will be as special to him as it is to me?

Q.   I have been with my partner for three years and so far we only engage in oral sex. I havent been ready to go forward with full sex and he has been very understanding about this. However, now I am getting tired of being a virgin as I am 25 and its ...

A.   5 August 2010: i hope this can help at least a little bit. i could put myself in the guys position. because i had the past as him except for this child part. also as you say he does respect you and is kind. But also dont rush yourself. Do it when you feel ... (read in full...)

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