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*arisaLeigh
writes:Me and my boyfriend, Justin, and I have been dating for almost two months. i really like him but i just met his friend Drew. I felt really attracted to Drew and Drew even treated me better than Justin did. Drew was major flirting with me the whole time and im sad to say i liked it. i dont really know what to do because i feel like if i see Drew more i will leave Justin and there will be some major drama. but i do wanna see Drew again, thats the bad part. I dont know how to do this without making Justin that mad. because i really do like Drew and everything.
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reader, karen1989  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 This is the shortest bit of advice i've ever given. And hopefully the most effective.
Follow your heart. Life is too short to be overanalyzing every dilema. If you like someone else already then justin will never be the one for you.
Good luck :)
Karen.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 July 2010):
Well, if you want Drew, you will just have to hurt Justin. But remember, if Drew is willing to stab his best friend in the back, he will stab you in the back too. Also remember that if you do this, it will have a serious effect on your reputation. People will not trust you.
That said, Justin is clearly not the guy for you anyway since you've only been dating for 2 months and you're thinking of another guy. So, let Justin go. Be fair to him. He deserves someone who won't hurt him.
But as for Drew, think carefully. A guy who stabs his best friend in the back will stab you in the back. And you'll end up with no one.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Drew sounds like bad news to me. He openly flirted with his friends gf? He is not serious and only a player if you ask me. If you were single he might not have flirted with you. Maybe he thought it was ok because you were not single, so you wouldn't get carried away of he flirted with you.
Imagine this, if Drew flirted with you knowing you are not only in a relationship, but also in a relationship with his friend, how many single unattached girls do you think he flirts with? On day one, you are hardly that mesmerizing that he has fallen 100% for you and dream of marrying you. I don't think Drew is anything other than a major flirt and player.
Besides, guys don't like to have their friends date their ex's, so Drew is pretty much off limits to you.
But the again, you have only been with Justin for two months. Figure out why you are in a relationship with Justin, and maybe end it. Because there will be more temptations coming along, and you need to stay loyal to your boyfriend if you want the relationship to work. If you are easily tempted by other men you will find the relationship to be more of a burden than a joy.
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