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writes: Hi guys i feel so ashamed of myself, is beacuse i always watch porn and i mean not any. i like to watch bondage and hogtied which it makes me feel like doing it and i like to see the girls going through the pain.how can i stop watching hogtied porn? plz help
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 OK, dude. I normally "sympathize " with the avid porn fan but this fetish (hogtied) is just plain wrong with a capita W. You're right to recognize you need to avoid it because you might just act on those fantasys. This is the kind of porn that gives the other types of porn a bad name. Women are NOT meant to be hogtied! They're meant to be carresed and mad love to even to the point of making the entire process all about their pleasure not yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): I agree with dirtball.. you'll eventually get tired of the same old same old, just like with regular porns.. there's only so much back and forth of anything you can watch, and eventually you just start to zone out and not care. That's why people who worry about their partner should really not worry, since the more they watch it, the more sick and tired of it they become.
If you feel you can't stop, just keep watching it, but just like with regular porn, unless you feel you can pretend to like going through the painful moments just as much as the girls who are getting paid to pretend, don't try those stunts at home. Of course, you might really like doing that stuff too, because some do, so it's your choice. There's so much porn out there, just keep watching it, because you'll get so tired of trying to keep up to all of it, you'll give up one day. Just like regular movies, if you look for them everywhere, you can never find enough time in the day to devote to watching every single one, anyway.
The main thing is, try to balance your time out so you're not doing it for hours on end and wasting your whole day. Stand up, stretch, go shopping, eat, do whatever, just to do other things to get your mind off obsessing over it. As long as you're budgeting your time wisely and you're not hurting anyone else's feelings by watching it, do as you wish. It's just like anything else, eventually, even if it takes a couple of years, it'll burn itself out as an exciting past time, and you'll find something else that consumes your time and energy.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 HMMMM oh put a censor thingy on your computer so you cant go to porn sites... porn is bad and evil
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (21 July 2010):
 Step away from the computer.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Another thought, people often will get bored with the same porn after a while. You might just get bored with it and won't have a problem stopping.
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reader, yeahserious +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Well unless you feel guilty watching porn altogether theres no reason 2 stop watching it. Trust me there is a lot worse stuff out there.
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reader, Squeaky  +, writes (21 July 2010):
Firstly face up to what you enjoy and don't be ashamed, it won't help you find like minded people who enjoy it too. Take care with who you meet and don't force your likes upon people as it could turn into a nasty situation. There are like minded people out there so get searching if it is what you truely enjoy. Play safe and careful and you could be having a truely enjoyable time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): Have more sex so you aren't thinking about it, and get out and do other things. But there's nothing wrong with your fetish at all.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 July 2010):
Yup, willpower. I don't see a problem though. If it's what you like, then that'swhat you like. Pretty simple.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Everybody has certain fetishes. As long as it's nothing illegal and nobody gets hurt, you probably shouldn't worry.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 July 2010):
 If it really bothers you, you just need to have willpower and stop. There's no magic solution, you just need to tell yourself to stop. Keeping busy will help.
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