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I really like her a lot, and want to know how to get her attention!

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Question - (11 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *teel stake writes:

So I've found this girl and she really makes me feel... I cant really explain the feeling =/. I guess "alive" would be the word. After a bad breakup with my ex a couple of months ago i thought it'd be impossible to find another girl to make me feel this way. I was wrong. There's a problem though... I can't hook her. I use to be a player at school at the beginning of this year (junior year HS). But I committed myself to change a couple of months ago and change my ways... I never cheated on a girlfriend or anything like that. I'd just talk to a bunch of girls. I still kinda do(not serious though) Well anyways, this girl is named kat. She's a freshmen and she's not the prettiest girl around but her personality clicks with me and she's pretty too. Well after getting her to talk to me on facebook she finally decided to text me after a week.(i just told her i thought she was cool and if she wanted to too text me, if did cook and if not then its ok). So no pressure. make her think im neutral on it sort of. Well we started talking about a week ago. I walked her to class on thurs. and frid.(of course not the weekend) and we've been txting all week. well kind of ha. i let her txt me first cause thats what im comfortable with and sometimes she doesnt txt me all day and im just confused about it? She told me she thinks im cool and has told a friend of mine she really likes me. hopefully as a boyfriend =o. But for example she hasnt texted me today. at all. so whats with that????? i just need help on how to get her attention and make her want to want me ha. like a chase. or maybe advice on what im doing wrong or how to get her. I really like her guys ALOT and any advice would help ALOT i dont want to lose this girl haha. Thanks =D

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A female reader, Sings_alot_chicky United States +, writes (11 April 2011):

Sings_alot_chicky agony auntWell if you really like this girl and she isn't texting you, then you text her for a change. maybe she is tired of being the one always starting the conversations. (i kno i hated it wen i had to text my bf to get him to tlk) so maybe u should just give that a try.

And don't make her chase after you cuz tht can really make her mad. Girls are very complicated, try to make her feel special.

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