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I need help to understand my jealousy, or i'll lose the best man I've ever had.

Q.   I have been in denial of my problem. I am very jealous with my bf and its wrong.. I have had problems with him in the past and i don't trust him. I'm tired of being like this and i want to change. I question him about everything, like where is he g...

A.   25 April 2011: You just need to relax and let go a little bit. It's fine to worry about what hes up to but you cant constantly bug him about it. And to be honest he can't be the best man you ever had if you have constant trust issues. just losen up and if he ... (read in full...)

Why does he treat me like this? Why does he act like this? What does it mean?

Q.   I have an FwB, but we act like we are bf/gf (just that there is no strings). He knows I like him a little, and he said he is starting to like me (not sure if that has changed or not, i asked over a week ago). He calls me 'cutie' all the time (i...

A.   25 April 2011: Sorry or the brute response to this but... HE LOVES YOU! he obviously cares about you alot.... (read in full...)

If he knows I like him, why doesn't he do something?

Q.   Theres this guy i have liked for coming up 2 a year. I ve never told him i like him but well he said to a mate of mine he knows i like him, They only thing thats getting on my nerves is now that he knows why hasnt he said anything to me abo...

A.   25 April 2011: Most guys don't like to express it and you have to come forward first. Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. As for "Now im thinking im just compleatly ugly im not tiny but im not fat so i cant see whats wrong with me" thats just you ... (read in full...)

He says he's too lazy to love me any more. Is this real or is it his depression talking?

Q.   What does it mean when you get dumped by your depressed boyfriend because he doesnt want love or relationships anymore because he's too lazy? Is that even possible? Can someone seriously be too lazy to want love and relationships?...

A.   25 April 2011: He might just be giving up on everything. You should seriously talk to him and see whats up. He probably just doesn't care anymore.... (read in full...)

How to keep this relationship fresh when we are far away?

Q.   I am a 24yrs boy before 1 week ago I had a girlfriend of foreign country we had a relationship about seven month I love her very much and she also loves me these days I miss her very much she says that she will wait for me I also wait for her but in ...

A.   3 March 2011: Suprise her by taking a trip to wherever it is she lives. Stay there a while and just have fun and relax with her. If you can't go there then try to save enough money untill you can. To be honest LDR don't always last long if you can never get ... (read in full...)

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